Should women control their emotions in order to be "High Value"?

The world needs to recognize that a woman’s sensitivity and tenderness is a gift. Not to her primarily but to the world. Some broken women may choose to use emotions to manipulate those around them but that is another matter.

This is why I trust you and David more than any other relationship advisors, because you obviously give sincere, genuine thought to what you believe, feel, and say. I don’t get that vibe from other relationship coaches. Thank you for being real guys.

Spot on, Reneé! I so love it when you make videos like this. I personally believe, though, that both men and women shouldn’t control their emotions. Emotions should be felt. If someone is just happy or calm most of the time, then I’d say there’s something wrong with that person. Also, if we try to control our emotions when we are with people, it will just create resentments. I love the part where you said that if a woman can’t feel emotions, then she can’t be a good mother. Thank you for this video, Reneé. I wish you safe delivery. Take care and happy holidays! 💖🤗

I can’t tell you how much I needed to hear this today Rene. I am 34 weeks pregnant and married to a wonderful man but having feelings of guilt and confusion about my emotions. This helped SO much! God bless you!!

Thank you so much for this video, Renee. And yes, I like this format!

Reneé, I just discovered your channel and am so grateful for your wisdom!

Brilliant advice once more!!

Nice! I’m studying emotions at the moment at the Emotion Expert Centre. It’s super interesting what you say and yes men have different brains and process emotions differently. ❤️❤️ thanks for you video Renee, I love the bits where you just sit down in green parts 🪴✨

I absolutely loved it! The message, the format, all of it! And having carried two babies myself, my deepest respect for you and your state, you represented the "epitome of feminine" in this video. I'm following your material since 2014 and gained uncountable wisdom and knowledge. But! After seeing, hearing and feeling you in this particular video, I still have much to learn from you, specifically in terms of feeling and carrying them. I had an epiphany when you made the association with attunement (giving resources to our families and communities) and our feelings. I could go on, dear Renee, especially knowing a tad of your story and where you came from, I honestly look up to you in deep admiration and inspiration for my own life. Plus, you look absolutely beautiful pregnant, like combining many archetypes of the feminine embodied into one. Thank you very much. Christine, Berlin

Your video was right on time for me ❤️ Thank you

Love the nature walk and the surroundings. Where you are living is very beautiful, surrounded by nature. I love the topic. My son says I am emotional but I had to explain what you said here that women have hormones and they are more emotional than men. They have to express their feelings and they have to be emotional because they are the nurturer. My ex did not understand my emotions and he got angry when we were married. It causes me to shut down and feel oppressed and that caused me stress. when I could not talk about how I was feeling. It is stressful when a man does not want to listen to his wife and make her feel that she is crazy. I have 3 sons. It hurts when you marry a man and give birth to his children and he does not care about your feeling and what you have to say. We did not understand each other and the communication was not good. He keep telling the boys that your mom end the marriage but it takes 2 to make a marriage work. He thinks that because a man is bringing the money that is enough and she just have to sleep with him. He does not understand you have to listen to your wife and care about her feelings then she will want to be close to you. Please share your knowledge and insights on everything I shared here Renee so I can understand more of what happened.

This is one of the best advice I’ve heard on this topic. Very nice 👍🏼

Only three minutes in and I definitely agree. A woman should be herself. Exactly they will come out. Or she will begin to harbor resentment. Be yourself. Be loved for who you are.

Wonderfully and simply explained as usual, thank you Renée for all what you teach us, all what you explain to us women is the cure we need to live happier and ourselves with men in this challenging 21st Century... 😁🤗 you make me genuinely smile whenever I understand your point... 😁 I would just add that on the contrary, the men who tend to want a woman's emotions to be controlled are the NON-MASCULINE MEN who feel threatened and not want to lose control because they have a weak personality and try to show up strong by becoming fakely authoritarian... a real masculine man, no matter how much more rational and more pragmatic he generally tends to be, would provide his time and patience, as a natural provider, to understand what's wrong in a (obviously non-abusive) woman's complicated mind... 🙂😊 I might be wrong as I'm much less experienced than you are, this is just my own understanding of men and what I myself noticed and felt through my own experience... 😊 Mercii and kisses to you and your beautiful family from France... ❤🇲🇫

Great video Renee. Congrats on the third on the way! You must make an amazing mom cause you're a great woman. And like you've always said, men like vulnerable, open women! Men yearn to be in that energy. I think it does a woman no favors to be closing off her emotions if she likes the man. Thats exactly what men are used to; closed off emotions. Men like women's emotional range and want to feel it, it takes us out of our comfort zone, its like visiting an exotic island somewhere. And we cant get that energy anywhere else but from a woman. Its also a compliment for the man, since it implies that the woman feels so comfortable in his presence that she can be herself and open up and seek him for reassurance (certainly she wouldn't do that with any other random man. He's special!) That true authentic openess is very important for the guy to make the girl his one and only in his mind. And while It can be a little overwhelming for overworked men to have a woman one cares for get really emotional on him, its important for us in our growth process through life to learn to soothe women's emotional side with a mindful, calm energy, by speaking less, listening, and asking the right questions if need be--because women cant get that calm assertive energy anywhere else but from a man, and I've had great endings to long nights by taking on that mindful approach. And this growth in emotional inteligence helps men in all areas. And thats the thing too!--men need women to be open with their emotions around them so they can learn and develop a wider emotional range. Men can learn a lot from women about certain positive & sacred emotions, like nurturing, warmth, grace, modesty, etc. and also emotional hygene, so to speak, like letting things out and not repressing, not being so closed off, etc.

So much of this resonates with me and my experience with my ex-husband. He had this idea that women should be poised and in control all the time. He used, as an example, a character in the movie Sunset Boulevard---a 22 year old woman who was always calm, cool and collected, no matter what. He complained often about how today's women just let it all hang out too much, and would try to dictate to me how I should conduct myself. Funny thing was, he was very emotional and much more feminine than masculine in his emotions. He was often depressed, moody and acted like the world was coming to an end over the simplest things. I guess he subconsciously figured one of us needed to be in control of our emotions, so it should be me. I spent eight years suppressing my feelings and trying to keep things under control. So once I finally got out of that marriage, I had all these emotions that kept coming in like a storm that I had to deal with. Now, I process my feelings as I'm feeling them, and I am much better off for it.

I was srsly gonna ditch her but you made me give it another chance

Just discovered you now on Google!😂😂 Love you

Beautiful video, beautiful advice, thank you! I was so concerned about you as I watched this video 'cause you were very pregnant and taking a fairly long walk in the hot sun... and I was just hoping you weren't about to faint every time you paused hah. And where I live, I could never take a walk by myself on a normal day, especially not if I was pregnant... so I was like what??? She's taking a walk by herself?!? And I got scared haha, but I assume it's safe enough to do that in your neighborhood, so glad you're taking advantage of it!

Yes.