6 Burning Signs He Doesn't Want a Relationship with YOU

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I agree with a lot of this. As far as a guy saying "im not ready" or "i dont know" they're not always meaning it. Sometimes they're being incongruent with themselves. Their emotions and logic are conflicting. Now I know this is a channel for women wanting long term mates, so this is spot on for most men with traditional values.

Men prefer to decrease emotions and drama. This emptiness of emotions allows us to solve problems, move forward, to get the kill and to escape the chaos of life. Wow this resonates with me and sounds so poetic. Should be a lyric!

As a man, I can tell you without any margin of error. A MAN: 1) Does not want to initiate because if he ever makes an impression that his emotional investment is bigger than the woman's is she will leave him. Maybe not immediately, but she will. 2) If he lets the woman "take too much" of his time he will have to ask permission to have any time to do his own things. To a man you are not consistently more important than his hobbies. Some men have failed to learn this in time (me included) and have paid for it dearly. 3) Women are kept at certain distance because (for a reason a man can not answer) women almost without exception want to take control of the man if he lets her too close. It's not that he does not care about the woman. It's that he cares about himself too. 4) You are only there when you want something. No exceptions. If he lets you take from him you will never give any value back. He will give you what you deserve so you just have to be worth the hassle. 5) He is a man. He wants to know you, maybe your family, almost never your friends. He is invested in you by investing in you emotionally. Literally no one else has any role in this. 6) There's truth in this. Men do not communicate like women. If we blatantly state something it means exactly what was said. Men solve problems, women want to feel them. We do not want your drama ever. You have female friends for that. If you expect us to act like modern women do there are 2 observations available to us. You are not wrorth the trouble and you do not respect the man as a member of the male gender.

I love your videos, Renee. Insightful, clear, and poised. I enjoy working with you!

I couldn’t say that he did or said any of this, I am still confused on why he just left. He called we texted. We had standing days to see one another, “ he never validated “ however he was tender. He was loving, we didn’t hang out with his friends because my divorce wasn’t final. Spring break I was supposed to meet his kids. I left on business and that was the end of us. 🤷🏿‍♀️

Question. This is awkward for me. But I am in the process of a divorce. But I am interested in my friend. What you said. It seems that my friend would want a relationship with me. (Not that I want to be in a relationship right away). My question is this. My friend says not that he does not want to be in a relationship (he wants to) with me he says he can't because my soon to be ex and I saved his life I don't know how to react to this. I am getting mixed emotions.

Where is that phrase? It’s not on the site at all.

He initiate 100% but I still not sure as he doesn't shows interest for my life just want to talk about intimacy. I feel emotional distance anyways.

He told me he can’t be there for my emotional needs. That broke my heart. But he constantly tell me we’re in an exclusive relationship and won’t let me break up. When I walk away and move on, he comes back and chase me..

All totally none applicable at this point in my life. However! With that being said, the instinctive, subconscious thoughts that springs to mind is as follows: i) if a man ever tried to initiate anything casual, I would have to respond with the following sentiment, at what point did any billionaire decide to casually reach that level of status. ii) No man or woman who ever decides to become a billionaire ever does so casually. Thinking that if we are deciding not to grow in value with time, then it can only lead to depleting in the same value, personally and to loved ones. This reminds me of some time back, where I'd been a little too open with someone many many years back. He said about 'friends with benefits' and my response to him was, "so your going to pay all my bills then and clean my house, etc". He was quick to apologise, although, with true feelings coming out automatic, I was just trying to stay true to myself. Moving forward onto points here in the video... all very clever as always. I feel that we should all already know them to the core, but this is why we need you here with us, Renee. Can only begin to imagine how many women you are keeping grounded and safe. 💓