💙 How to be Vulnerable Without Being Needy?

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This deserves way more likes. Your advice is always grounded and it comes from the heart. Every woman should watch this.

Beautiful description of neediness and vulnerability.

Renee, this video was just what I needed! Your work on feeling things through has massively impacted my life and marriage for the better. ❤️❤️ And I loved the program Understanding Men. Thank you so much!

Renee, I can't express enough my gratitude for all that you teach!

Thank you so much for this video, perfect description :)

Yes, thank you renee! The homeless man story is one that's taught to us on day one. Women see us trying to get her attention and they see us as the bum. But if we bring the party and simply invite her into it, then that's bringing value. If you think you deserve anything, you are the bum. The hungry don't get fed. But if you cultivate your own party and simply invite others into it while maintaining healthy bounaries, that is high value.

Thank you soo much. I come to this video right after i red your email that you have sent to me. And it hits me hard as I am going through now. Thank you again. This topic are relatable because I've been quite needy to my ex before..as if I cant live my usual if he is not around. I feel like I need him more and more in my life. When he just getting for a few minute...I just feel frustrated and clingy and neediness..and i know deep down that maybe he feel annoys about me.😂 I wanna change so much cuz i do feel like..if i stay in his shoe...i feel like he is disturb my privacy. So i think I am just gonna practice to be vulnerable...maybe by writting a letter instead of texting sarcasm text to him. 😊 Thank you soo much. I hope us, women can be stronger even without a present of man. 🔥🔥♥️

Love this video! Big hug from Argentina 💕

I love this, thank you:)

This was a great video!!!!

Very good explanation thank you

Thank you Renee, great explanation, now I understand... It's a little late for my relationship, but now I understand what I did wrong😔. Thanks!

This is a great video explanation. I can clearly see the difference, It is extreme. The women sending 25 text messages eg is straight up abusive and angry of course this can happen to the best of us and there is something to be said about the person that is always trying to be calm and stable ( not feeling enough perhaps, or suppressing emotions) Especially when you’re triggered. I’d like an example for when you’re being needy in a more understated way, like texting, a question concerning something that is on your mind but trying to be chill about it. Can you give us an example of a situation like that and how to handle it. Thank you so much

Thanks for this video Renee 💕. I' m glad you talk about our favorite topic: vulnerability. Aha even tho, i really want to know what is the difference between adding value and take value ? Love from france 🇫🇷💕

First baby!

Renee I like this video. I want to ask you. I have been having a lot of emotions for the past weeks. I have been crying and having regrets of the past. I had a separation when my children were little and a divorce a few years ago. I am blaming myself for the struggles my children is facing because divorce affects children. Their dad and I did not have good communication and a good relationship. My youngest son is 16 now. He was 4 when I ask his dad to leave. I am going over in my mind what if we had talked and he did anger management and we did more marriage councelling. There was a lot that happen and he was in debt. I felt that I was going to have a mental breakdown if he does not leave. I did not think about the future, I was just thinking about the situation that that moment. How can I heal from the past. What I don't have control over? I am thinking if we were living in a better neighbour and still married, my younger son would not have made bad choices and hang out with bad company and smoke. I am blaming myself and feeling bad. I wrote a text to my ex, my sons father. I said in the text we did not sit and talk for so many years, if we had counceling during the separation we would not have divorce.You have been angry and I have been hurt. I know we had a lot of fights and this is not good for the children. Divorce is not good for children either. We have 20 years of history. I still think about the house we had and the times me, you and the boys did things together when they were small. I am thinking about so many things. How things could have been different. I thought we woudl live together till we get old. I wanted to have a good marriage and a good relationship. I did not want any fights. This is not how I wanted my life to be living with my children alone and their father living somewhere else. We have 20 years of history good and bad. I can't forget the house we had, the times we went to the farm, beach and waterfalls with the boys. I wish thngs were different and we had a good marriage and relationship but we can't change the past. We can only change the present and the future. Am I being vulnerable here Rene? What I wrote to him what does that tell him and what does that say about me. I am feeling lonely now. My children are growing up and I would be alone. In my culture lots of people stay together for better or worse untill the die. The children would have the stability of having both parents in the home even though their parents have problems. Being a single mom and divorce is not something to be proud off. It is hard. It affect my children with us struggling financially and they did not feel secure having a dad at home to take care of the finances. A lot of things had happen between us and I felt that I was a burden for him to take care off. I have always been an emotional woman. When he was angry I was scared when I saw the anger in his eyes. I just stay quiet and was oppressed. I wrote notes and leave it on the counter top and leave it for him to read when he had an argument and he was angry. I don't know what I could have done differently.

I really enjoyed the video. Thank you. (I am a man)

So vulnerability means you always have to say how you feel and you write about how you feel? Like I feel angry when you did that. I feel happy when we go for a walk and spend more time together. How do show and express vulnerability and communicate with my son to let him know his behaviour and actions is hurting me?

couldn't guys send 1000 messages too, yes they can. it is not true that women are hysteric only