Why does he KEEP me around if he doesn't want a relationship?

Hi there & thanks for watching my video! 🌻🌻 Here's another related video on the topic of men & commitment: 10 Signs of A Commitment Phobic Man. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kiOp5tQza7Q

This guy i talked said he didn't want a relationship or to ready to commit due to "trauma" but said he wanna "focus on himself" ( i dont blame him) yet we was doing all of these couple things, he literally said to me "i wouldn't want you either" i'm like okay sir😂 and i just disappeared on him then a month later his text said "hey hope you've been great" i didn't replied. they don't want you but say they "care for you" but wanna keep you around, like don't check up on me, they like control. but don't get mad whenever i get someone else. I'm more than sex and a situationship told him that too.

Because he’s a narcissist and needs supply from as many outlets as he can get. It’s all about resources. My ex calls them “friends”.

That actually was all the answers I was seeking about a man I have been in an off & on (situationship) with for 13 years who keeps sleeping around with other women and giving me STDs! I have asked him this question and his response has always been 'because I love you" and "because they mean nothing to me". I knew he was lying but I still couldnt understand WHY is he here? Why is he following me? Why is he telling me he loves me when quite clearly his actions say another thing entirely! The most shocking part of your video for me was the eminem song! Because he does follow me around even to bars in different cars getting pist asf if he see's me talking to other men. I wish I could turn back time! I cant believe after all these years, it took a woman to answer these questions I have. Thank you for your complete honesty. At least now I can hopefully deal with my pain and heal my broken heart never to be fooled again. Wish me luck...

Funnily, my friends and I were discussing about this topic just yesterday. Then this video popped up on my notification when I opened YT. Everything you say here is correct, Renee. I've heard the same answer from a guy friend I talked to. Thanks much for creating this video. It stung a bit, but it's a wake up to everyone esp. women who are being strung along and are confused about why they're in that situation. You're the best, Renee! 💖💐

Because he's a selfish jerk

Saw this in passing. A woman is doing this to me too, as a probable source of validation. One answer is - they are a serial manipulator.

Hearing this strikes my heart and mind like I'm watching a horror movie.

I was literally clapping when you said "to show up as the one and only" woman. Haha! Love ur vids, Renee!

With age and experience, this is where the importance of true groundedness and confidence comes in ... you may have found a wonderful human being in a man but not all those connections are your mate. You have to decide first what you want (ex. Maybe you want a committed relationship now maybe you don’t). If you do, then that’s the filter that applies to your dating. Hard if already a few years into a relationship when you realize this but you have to reset the bar ... kind yet grounded and firm, say to yourself these are my core boundaries for myself and the kind of relationship I want to be in. If the man doesn’t want that, you don’t have an agreement, so then you say thank you next.

All u said matches what i am thinking.. But just need to know how to move on and forget about it all

Hi renee I love you and i love your vedios How to know he wants to attach to me, i mean what are the signs or hints that he's serious

Mind blowing... 🤔Keep you around as a resource. I find that to be true. Not necessarily for sex although yes, but my mind. Information. Tends to ask me a lot of questions. Ugh. Enlightening. Thank you!

I totally agree with what you said here because I am experiencing it. Think I broke it off with this man 20 times at least but always go back to him so I know I'm my own worst enemy. He's a good man but hasn't committed to anyone since his divorce 30 years ago! I know what I have to do, I just have to do it

Renee! You never fail to amaze me 😍❤... it's not just what you say, but the way you deliver your message and the research that goes into creating key content 💞 A'lot of powerful points gone into this video 💯👌 thank God, because you really do help to me to stay grounded ❤🙏 On a final note, would like to add, calming music in the background, great thing to use in the video; it adds a special touch ✨ P.S. you truly are the Queen of Hearts, in my universe 💜♌👑

Damn the truth hurts... but it will set you free! 😝

I wonder if anyone else feels like an alien on this planet trying to figure out human behavior. Think I'll just stick to the spiritual journey. Whoever is meant to attach will. 🖖🏾

Hello and thank you for the insight! I am a man who is trying to navigate his feelings about a former lover. I don't think our emotional bond was strong enough before we started having sex. I thought I was in love with this woman, but maybe it was only ever infatuation and a case of the "harem effect" on my part- even though we had agreed to polyamory and weren't having sex anymore.

And men are an even bigger resource to women. We pay ALL the bills and rent without splitting (if he do that's a boy not a man). We protect you physically mentally and spiritually. Women crave stability for themselves and possible children they birth, so men are the priority. Anyone could cook clean and should learn, and if he wants no kids then there's no mutual equal value . Sex work is legal in many places, so the sexual desire is no issue. In fact, on the sex work market you can get what you wish to get, fantasize about etc.

He won’t let go yet won’t let me go...