Why don’t men like 4C Hair? I ranked all hairstyles and who I attracted in each one.
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Published 2023-02-21
Have you noticed differences in how people treat you with different hairstyles? Have you noticed a difference in how you treat YOURSELF?
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All Comments (21)
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This has also been my experience with men. I think of my natural hair as a filter to weed out problematic individuals with internalized anti-blackness.
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In high school, I once had a boy in one of my classes hit on me on the day after I got my hair silk pressed. Meaning my hair was now down my back. I said to him.. yesterday you wouldn’t even talk to me, what gives? He said, well yesterday you were ugly. Literally nothing had changed except that my naturally curly hair that I generally kept in a ponytail was now straight and long. So I told if I was ugly yesterday, then I can continue being ugly today; and sat in my seat.
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The same ones who hate 4c hair. Have the same hair texture growing out of their head. Make it make sense.
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Best decision I ever made was to embrace my kinky frizzy 4c hair texture. It weeds out so much nonsense. And yes, mostly NON black men were (and still are) the ones who hit on me the most. It really doesn’t bother me.. I say like my mom always told me “go where you’re celebrated” 💅🏾😂
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"IM BLACK MIXED WITH BLACK...GOODBYE"🤣🤣🤣🤣 love it
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As a black man, this was kinda sad to here cuz it’s probably true. She ain’t got no reason to lie. We gotta do better
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I remember a girl saying that natural hair is f**k boy repellent and I laughed because oh how true it was😂😂😂
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I'm dating a guy who is Asian and tells me he loves how my natural hair feels and looks. He helps me take down my hair when it's time for wash day and admires it when I style it in an afro or even in a puffy ponytail. There are definitely men out there who appreciate our natural 4C hair. ❤
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Ahhhh Texturism within the black community it’s definitely a thing
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Let's be real here. Collectively BM do not like natural hair. I'm not saying all or every single individual BM in America. But a huge number of them do not like natural hair. I get the same treatment when I silk press my natural hair, all of a sudden BM notice me. Verses my natural hair, they act like I don't exist. Its just plain ol anti-blkness at the end of the day. On the other hand, I always get compliments from non-blk people with my natural hair. 🤷🏾♀️
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🤷🏽♀️ When I was in 8th grade I relaxed my hair suddenly overnight. I had type 4b/c hair. Boys that NEVER looked at me suddenly were flirtatious. Every girl was complimenting me saying "wow, you are pretty NOW." I was so shocked. My day felt ruined actually. I didn't know my natural bun was that much of a turn off. 🥴
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We as black women are the ONLY women who have to constantly think about our hair. And not because we want to 🤦
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YES to all of these hair styles and the responses to each. It's actually insane. My fro attracts older black women, white people who remember the 80s and their wish to return to that era, and absolutely no black men except the ones who are trying to sell me some skewed history about being the "original jews."
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So wild how we get treated differently by different people, depending on our hair styles
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I heard a woman say once "Go where you're appreciated." everyone is beautiful to someone, don't try to conform to someone else's beauty standards. Be beautiful to yourself first 🙂
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I love it when people show me who they really are. Makes it easy
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If any man doesn't like you in your natural state....STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM THEM!! Don't allow their problem to become your problem. The only thing that saddens me about this issue is how a BW may become Insecure because of the opinion of someone else...especially the opinion on a few BM. What we as BW have that make us Unique, was given by our creator DO NOT insult the work of God's hands to satisfy the fragile mind of man! 👌
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I´m an autistic white girl and hair is one of my special interests. 4c hair is one of my favourite hair textures! whenever I see it, it makes my day. A friend of mine with 4c hair once cut her hair and gave me some as a present. <3 <3 <3 I wish it was more appreciated by society, so that more people would show it off and feel great about it <3
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As a white woman with naturally straight hair, I'll never understand the hate 4C hair gets. 4C hair is STUNNING and I find it so beautiful how much it can "shapeshift" depending on the hairstyle. It is very versatile (though I'm fully aware of how time consuming it can be as well!).
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I’ve been using my natural locs as a filter to weed out anti black men for almost a decade and I love it. It makes dating so much easier and saves me from a lot of hurt… and that’s sad.
