Jake Banfield - Boys Don't Cry (Official Music Video)

I’ve buried a lot of friends and family with no tears, but holding the box with my baby boy in it hit me in a way I’d never felt before. Thanks for the song👏

Everyday I struggle to stay alive. My kids are the only reason I'm still here. But everyday it gets harder to stay strong for them. Thank you for this song. I appreciate you and anyone reading this comment. We got to stay strong!

"We didn't realize we were making memories, we were just having fun."

To everyone reading here, I pray that God restore everything you lost and the pain you went through this year. Dont give up or lose hope. The devil is a liar. 2024 is your comeback season. May you be blessed and divinely protected ❤

My dad passed away in August and I haven't had a shoulder to cry on. I had to remain strong for everyone around me especially my mom. I wish I wasn't alone

As a man that almost ended it all last year thank you for this song says so much what goes on in our head

I have no one to reach out to. My mom died, my dad's a drunk and I don't speak to my brothers, we have no bond and weren't raised together. I have no life partner. I can't make friends. Never had kids. Cheers to anyone else struggling, we'll make it.

"Where are these tears supposed to go? " That just sent tears down my cheeks .This is the most beautiful song I've heard in a very long time 💖😢..Hold those boys(Every Loved One) tight love them with all you have be that shoulder

Baby you have to heal your soul. Don't keep it inside! I raised two boys that I didn't have. I gave them a Mom and plenty of love. It is ok not to be ok. It's ok to cry!! 😭 I love you son 🤗

I just left my wife, shes been cheating on me for the last year with 7 dudes that i know of. These last 2 weeks are so hard because everything i had i lost. I have nothing at all anymore. I have nobody, I have nothing, ill never be nothing but yet for some damn reason im still here. Especially when everyday it would be so much easier to not be anymore. Life sucks. Getting crushed is something else.

This song hits me hard even listening to it for the first time. Being a volunteer firefighter of 18 years and a 911 dispatcher of the last 6 years plus my family's military background - these industries condition us to "let it go and move on to the next" so that's what we do. Then recently when it is encouraged to talk things out, people don't realize how much we have held in for so long. I personally suffer from anxiety, depression and PTSD and have just buried it rather than talking about what bothers me. It is a struggle every day to just wake up and get ready for the day... but I do it because nobody else will do it for me. Men and women alike, you are not alone and it is okay to not be okay. If you ever feel any type of way, do not be afraid to reach out. If you bury it for too long, eventually it's going to destroy you from the inside out to the point everything you have buried will cause those who care to bury you. Let go of the pride, the stigma is over. #youhaveavoice #youmatter #youarenotalone

Real men cry when needed.

"I can fix anything but me" sums up my emotions right now

Thank you! im suffering from PTSD, Panic Attacks, Anxiety, but never shared my feelings with anyone. But after this song, i feel free. Youre saving life's. Keep on going with this music

Every once in a while, tears break the tipping point.😢 they are the antifreeze for the soul. ❤

Never cried in my life til my mother died at the funeral people were amazed to see that side of me i always had that strong attitude never smiling always alone nobody to call so i accepted the fact im either a loner a loser or just not happy with myself i think about my mother everyday and what hurts the most she never seen me succeed but she always stood by me right or wrong she was my best friend god bless her and everyone who got them dark days theres someone out there that cares about you live life best you can and never compare yourself to anyone .. god bless you all

"I keep trying to find that light but darkness keep darkness just keeps blinding me from what's right" thats great stuff. Thank you Praise Jesus Hallelujah 🙏❤

My little brother passed away 8 months ago, he was my shoulder. I don’t know where to direct my pain and anger and I have to be here for my sons. Boys don’t cry was beat into me as a kid and now I just let it eat me alive.

Let’s start a prayer chain and pray our men return To God and provide and protect women and become to lead of the household and lean on Christ and that women return to women who are able to be cared for and in the home to care for the kids… that the devil drops breaking family and leaving isn’t normal anymore normalize STAYING AND LETTING NO MAN TEAR APART WHAT GOD YOKES TOGETHER AND LET MARRIAGE BE NORMAL AGAIN!!! The forefront of goals in Christian life!!!

I think your vulnerability is incredible. I think youve helped millions of people across the world struggling / suffering with these same exact problems. My soul thanks yours. And i pray that you should feel better.