WHY YOU DON’T FIT IN AND HAVE NO FRIENDS- MY EXPERIENCE AND THE ANSWERS

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If you don't fit in and have no friends, you are a leader and have a purpose. Most people are fake and they only distract you from shining

Over the years I've realized that once u step back and r ok w being alone in ur own company, you tend to feel a lot more confident and relaxed going into new friendships bc ur not clinging on to other ppl to feel validated or seen by others

We attract what we’re a vibrational match for—jobs, friends, partners; etc. When we start to raise our frequencies, the people and opportunities who aren’t on that level will start to disappear, and the people who are, start to appear. Take your isolation as a great sign! It means you’re being prepared for higher blessings and connections, that match your higher frequency. 💜

Your friends don’t come first in life, your priorities In your life does, your regular education, your financial education, buying your first house, investing in your own business, finding yourself a companion & then starting a relationship in which leads to marriage & starting your own family. This is what all comes first. Forget having friends, friends are a only gonna stop you from those dreams. Get your life in order first. Throughout my younger years growing up in the 1980’s and 1990’s I learned absolutely nothing about life from having friends. If you keep hanging out with your friends going to bars/clubs and having parties, you will have nothing and you will learn nothing about finance and about how to gather your life together if you keep hanging out with your friends. I’m 51 years old and I’m telling you people this from my own life experiences.

It's better to be the odd person sitting in the room getting mocked at than trying to copy ppl! Never try to be someone you're not. Stop falling into peer pressure!

Baby, nine times out of ten the reason you do not have friends is that they envy you, and they feel that you are setting their bar to high. Don't stop doing whatever you are doing. They want you to be a copy-cat so that you don not stand out.

At this point in my life I don’t care. I used to worry so much about what people thought of me. I wanted so badly to be a people person but I just simply am not. I now put that energy in my studies, meditating, and working out. I like being alone + focusing on myself. I wish I had accept my introvertedness earlier

I used to dim my light for others & make myself small for them, trying not offend anyone. now I couldn’t give 2 f*cks ☀️😂 gotta let go of what dims your light to be a star 🌟

Someone once told me that if ppl are so called rejecting you? And you are so called "different" just remember: Rejection is Protection! You are being looked after by higher beings, God, Universe, however you wanna call it. And are being spared from a lot of useless, drama, conflict, danger n overall BS! So work on yourself, love who you are, and go out and CREATE the life you want! Bc once you do that, the ppl that are really meant to be your friends will FIND YOU! GUARANTEED! Rock on! 🤟😇💫

this is exactly how i feel... every friend group I've had I've felt different in, they didn't treat me like they treated everyone else in the group, and people acted like I was just a robot who couldn't talk and cried everytime someone cursed. I now have some friends who i show my true personality to, and like me for my real personality. Ive learned that I'm not actually boring, but with certain people I did not feel comfortable expressing my true self.

There is nothing like a peace of mind ,when being alone.

Most people are all ego. I love my own company. I'm not alone. A higher power is always by my side. Yes I get a bit lonely but I am not fulfilled by people. They drain me, irritate me and annoy me more than anything. I'm deep. I love learning. I care. I am aware. I am curious and open minded. I don't need to be right like most people. I just like to learn.

To fit in we must compromise our true self and that is unacceptable

I found myself always being the dumpster friend. “Friends” would only hit me up or hang out with me when they were down bad or needed someone to vent to or wanted to talk about others. But when it was time to turn up or go out, all of a sudden I didn’t exist and never got the invite. They’d always say your welcome to come but no one would ever directly come to me to invite me

I don't always agree. It's nice to be comfortable with solitude, but everyone can benefit from somebody checking on in each other

I’ve come to accept having no friends and being alone 🤷🏽‍♀️

Finally someone who understands who I am lol. Its sooo hard for me to make friends. Im a different level now spiritually . Don’t want anyone around me thats gone influence me to act other than what I am. Had to cut alottt of people off who don’t accept me for me, even family. Need friends with standards and deep thinkers. Love being an introvert 😊 won’t change for anyone

I realize my so called friends treat me really bad. They treated me like a third option. That is why I cut them off. I was not going to let them bring down my spirit. I realize people only want to talk to me when something good happened for them. I had one of my teachers tell me I can be a good leader. But I told her I don't think I can. But she saw something in me.

I'm starting to accept that friendships will be empty and I need to find little hobbies and activities to fill up my time. I just try not to focus on how meaningless these endeavors are and instead accept that they fill up the time.