Why You MUST Reject Your Ex (If You Want Them Back)

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He left me for someone else then came crawling back so I rejected him.. I don't wanna be with someone that chooses someone else over me

People always want what they feel they can’t have! Drop your availability levels to those who walked away from you and stay mission-focused on your own betterment. The people who are supposed to return to your life will, they just will.

Rejection and indifference to an ex narcissist makes them irritated! 😱

The only text message I want to see is “will you give me another chance?” and followed up with some serious groveling.

After a few months of dating, I blocked a woman who rejected me. At the time I was clueless about the concept of ' no contact'. I blocked her because I knew she would 'breadcrumb' me and I'm not into playing games. A year after the fact, I ran into her and she broke down into tears saying how she thought about me CONSTANTLY!

Again, this is another great video for empowerment. Women get very annoyed when they first reject you and now trying to walk there way back and see that you're not responding as they expect you to. Listen Firstly, you're getting healed gradually, they are now missing you, remember human being go after what they don't have. From the break up time that you have been rejected and you better yourself and focus on various things to strengthen yourself, she got no other choice than to reach out because of curiosity. Even if she goes for another man, is what we called rebound relationship which most of the time cannot work out like what you both have gone through together before. Unless there were no good time or long time relationship. I am talking about over atleast between one to 3 years relationship which has been established before she suddenly decided to get cold and need space because she got tired of been with you which is normal in life. Is your turn now to either get her back or not depending on what you have clearly seen whether she is really good for you or not again. Trust me, if you have the time and the endurance, it is how we human being have been wired, her interest level for you has gone up bruh is up to you and if she decided to move on let go there are billions women out there that will be willing to have you. Do you know the percentage of women to men in the world? Google it you will know for real that there are MANY fishes in your ocean waiting to have you. I have been there, I am talking from experience, was in a two and a half years solid relationship that we even lived together for a whole one year out of the two and a half years and suddenly she felt she wanted to end it. Initially I thought she was joking and after several trials to save the relationship, I let go. Less than 2 to 3 weeks into my NO CONTACT she started disturbing by calling me. Sometimes I picked up, sometimes I took say 2 days to return her call and after which I normally resumed my no contact. Now she has been finding her way to try and come back but she doesn't want to apologize and I understand but I didn't want to take her back until she learn to swallow her pride, and if she doesn't I already have a better replacement that is equally as perfect as her. So summon the courage bro and do your thing. Cheers!!!

I had my breakup 26 days ago now and I cannot begin to tell you how helpful your videos and Silenzio have been. I've listened to just about ALL of your breakup and no contact videos and its honestly made this so much easier to understand and cope with. Hopefully during days 45-60 he will reach out. Thank you for this helpful and easy to understand info :) love, Carson

That example... ultimately it is quiet simple. Once someone rejects you/changes the terms, regardless if its pre-dating, dating, relationship, or whatever, you move forward and never looking back. From that point on the other party has to put in crazy effort, like 100% reaching out, calling, etc. At that point its them who need to earn an other chance and not the other way around.

This video does a great job explaining the inner workings of only responding to significant msgs. Big help… Thx Lucia!

Manipulating another to see it our way is not right! Respect their decision even if it hurts. Love must flow both ways or Not at all!

I just love u .. u r the most clever person i ve ever listened to...go go Lucia

Great video! A couple of tips from my book (How To REALLY Get Over Your Ex by Dr. S. Moore DBM) : make one list of why you ended it and another of what would've persisted/worsened if you hadn't. Make copies of this list and tape it where you can see it at home, work, cellphone, and car. Also, put effort into bettering yourself- which will not only keep you busy enough to distract you until time heals your wounds but will also force you to realize your worth and inevitably miss them less. Good luck everyone!

IM SO GLAD I FOUND YOU OMG YOU ARE AMAZING. EVERYTHING YOU SAY IS GOLDEN

52 days NC. Refuse to respond to a breadcrumb. Thank you Lucia. You are the bomb.

I did respond politely but distant and in a very few words to his very sporadic messages checking on me over 6 months of No Contact. But recently, his messages ask for us to meet, and I feel this is exactly where I want to stay silent. Probably, forever. So, I feel that it was okay to answer the insignificant messages - as it only proves I am a decent human being - and that the true rejection comes from not answering 'significant' messages like his proposal to meet now, after 7 months. In my case, the suggestion simply came much too late and I am not interested anymore. Provided that he would have wanted to meet 'just to talk' in the first 3 months after the break-up, it would have been a different story. I feel that as the time passed, all messages have become 'insignificant' messages somehow - because of me losing interest, healing and moving on. I know people might still want their exes after 2 years of NC which is fair enough, especially if they've been together for 10 years or so; for me, personally, 7-8 months of NC after one year relationship doesn't add up.

Can’t wait.

Great information 👍.

Great post!

I understand completely 👍