Blanca's postpartum struggle...

I 100% have to agree with Jonathan even if Franco is only 2 they know they are smart and it’s important to teach them desde chiquitos what “NO” means because if not they become spoiled and want to do whatever they want when they want and no one can tell them no

you guys are so focused on not traumatizing your kids they are going to be traumatized about that. You can only try your best and you are doing a good job dont stress out about it too much

Jonathan is right you do have to teach Franco consequences to actions ofc don’t over do it he did a great job like he said he wasn’t in a dangerous situation it’s best for him to learn from his parents not from the world. Now he’s more cautious with doors which was the main goal Blanca got to let your kids learn 1 way or another again it’s best if YOU show him instead of others because we want what’s best for them you have to take that with every aspect of their lives from doors to personal life experiences they’re going to go thru. Blanca is an amazing loving mom and Jonathan is definitely going to be the best person they’ll learn from. Perfect duo ❤ yall will raise amazing children together

Childhood trauma has hurt me immensely. I don’t write this for sympathy but at 6 I was put in foster care for a year and past around to different families for 3 months increments. I was finally adopted but into a “Amish” strict family hundreds of miles in the middle of New Mexico on a ranch. We were homeschooled and separated from all social life and electronics. I don’t know anything about tv shows, music artists, nothing. I graduated and then “ran away” at 21. Now I am suffer from so much stuff. I have no family at all. Besides my husband and babies. 😢❤They are my blessings and I thank God for them. All this to say i told my husband everything about me on our first date. I let him know I’m not normal. And I would be hard to date lol! Now we’re about to have our 9 yr anniversary ❤

Blanca Yea your partner also needs their alone time we all need it and so good for yourself..😊

Honestly giving our kids confidence is key . Because that’s how they can also stand for themselves and have the freedom to try everything

kids are so smart! they do understand so much than you know.

Hi yall! Parenting is tough and never gets easier. Every year you learn something new and there are new needs for the child. It’s a never ending cycle. Focus more on your relationship and make sure yall are okay so the kids feel love. If the parents are not okay the kids won’t be okay in the long run. I say put your partner first and the kids will feel the love in the home. Cause if your mad at your spouse it can effect your mood and your kids won’t see the best version of you. My son is 8 and I learned this the hard way :(

It made me teary 9:35 because im those moms that doesn't get help. I still have my mom but shes not those moms that will help out when needed or while your healing... my husband helps for a few days or a week before he goes to work...and then thats when at 1 week of delivering i start doing it alk. Cooking, cleaning picking up and dropping kids off school...while taking care of a new born and dealing with your postpartum body and everything around it. Its super hard i wish i had help.. 😢

Yes I’ll forever be grateful my mom was a gentle parent, never physically hit us, used bad words and always encouraged us to be who we wanted to be and made us feel safe and was so patient! And plan to gentle parent! Yall share wonderful advice

I’ve read that when a child plays with his /her dad they reach the max level of oxytocin and when they get hugs from mom they also reach high levels of oxytocin that’s why they prefer to play with dad and cuddle with mom . ❤

It’s tough girl. Three kids one in school a toddler, a 2 month old. It’s hard, no help. Everything just me and my partner. But still very thankful. We do what we can. Not try to over do it because that’s when it gets stressful. And yes you’re very blessed, but you didn’t ask for it. I didn’t ask to not have not have any help, it’s just life. As long as our kids are healthy that’s all that matters. Don’t over think it. Just be thankful you have your babies. I know it’s easier said than done, but you got this ! Remember you’re feeding your baby through you and it could affect her. I am too so I can’t stress it. She’s going to be 2 months on the 19th and she wants no bottles or formula which is stressful but I see it as she’s better being next to me while eating and depends all on me. See the positive through it all. God Bless you momma 🤍🙏🏼

You guys are breaking Generational Curses!!! This is amazing and all Glory to God for the wisdom and knowledge! You both are doing a Great Job! Keep up the great work you two and spreading that Wisdom! Also walk in Freedom in Jesus Name! 🙏🤗♥️

Hi yall ❤ I just liked to pop in and say this podcast hit home. Even though I don’t have kids, I always watch and listen. I grew up just like Blanca did. I feel where she’s coming from 100% i felt so heard by just listening to yall right now. Wow.. the inner child in me feels heard ❤️

Thank you guys for being so open and vulnerable ❤️

I would love if you can bring ur mom to the podcast to talk about how she went through the struggle with ur dad please

Loved this pod , it was so real and raw 🤍🤍

I think this might be my favorite episode so far. Thank you!

Bless your heart Blanca🥺 I got teary eyed when you started empathizing with the mommas with little support. I’m a single momma but God is my support and he has never let me down or left me alone especially during in my pregnancy and raising my son. But this definitely hit home as a single mom. Please don’t let ANYONE guilt trip or shame you for the life God is allowing you to live🥹🙏🏼 Love you and you’re doing an amazing job momma. Everyday leave it all in Gods hands the hate, the guilt, the hurt and especially the things you don’t understand leave it to him♥️🙏🏼

This is my favorite episode forsure ❤️ thank you for this.