The Chemistry Equation: Make Her Attracted in 5 Minutes or Less

These are things that come naturally when you are comfortable in your own skin and are not nervous or anxious. Just relax and let the conversation flow. Pretend you're talking to a friend instead of someone you are trying to impress.

If a guy simply doesn't care what a woman thinks of him and just speaks naturally, the right ones will be attracted to him

Just to say , genuinely , I used your theory and your past videos , got myself a date on ' Match ' , played it cool on the website , not mass messaging and had the ' confidence ' of thinking ' i'm attractive ' and the attitude of plenty of fish in the sea ( take me or leave me ) I also had a wonderful first date at the weekend , 1 hour turned into 7 hours ( we went to a concert that had tickets ) . I also just left a like , and let her come to me - she visited my profile - numerous times before liking me back this Friday , went out on the Saturday . I also just relaxed and told my rehearsed stories and diid the 3 cycles - set up for a dinner date at the weekend - top marks to you , sir THANK YOU Bobby !

But to be honest, if there's no chemistry, it can also be that the girl is really cute but YOU didn't really feel it. Not every pretty girl creates a spark in you! It goes both ways

I feel so sorry for everyone dating in 2020s. God bless the 70s and 80s.

This is one of the greatest insightful dating tips on internet

This guy is a genius honestly made me an alpha. Most important thing I’ve learned from him is that women are lead by emotion!!!

I noticed that when I go to a event , party, gathering, whatever it is I always get the ladies interested in me from not talking to any women at all. For some reason the most bullish alpha male always seems to gravitate towards me and strikes conversation. These guys are usually the loudest and most masculine dude in the room bit they gravitate to me and just start asking me questions and comparing views on different matters to the point where I feel like Im just entertaining this dude just so he leaves everyone else alone. This is the point where we are laughing and sharing stories and opinions and Ill look around the room and every attractive woman in the place has eyes on me at one point or another. So when Its time to go home my Wife would always say “Man…..every woman in that place had their eyes on you tonight.” And she would laugh😊 What an angel. I miss her……..she died not two months ago from cancer and here I am watching videos on how to date women when Ive never had any problem getting their attention cause the other guys would do all the work for me……they just gravitated to me. It was always fun thinking about how easy it would have been to take one of those women home but I was married. One time I was at a Christmas party with my Wife for a friend of hers. They had a live cover band that was really really good. The lead singer was a female , a bit chunky but very attractive and had such a good voice. It just so happened that between sets she came back to the bar area to get in line behind me to get a drink so I let her go in front and said “Go ahead in front of me cause I know youre probably thirsty after all those incredible vocals.” She said “Aww thanks.” I told her her band was one if the best Ive ever heard and that her voice was just phenomenal. I was expecting her to say thank you and leaving it at that but she began asking me questions ljke do you know the host and have you knew them long then she looked at me with that look that any man would have to be oblivious not to pick up on and she said “Did you come here alone tonight?” I was totally taken back and pretty shocked because It wasn’t even my intention to flirt with her I was just being nice and wanted to compliment her. So yeah I told her Im here with my lovely Wife and the girl kinda looked embarrassed when I said that and I felt like I didn’t do anything wrong she just read me the wring way. Later my wife told me she saw that singer looking at me like a tiger ready to pounce so I told her what happened. She said “You gotta be careful just being nice to people cause you got it goin on man…..’mmmmm.” Then of course my Wife would attack me in bed cause it turned her on. Now i’m remembering all these stories wondering if I still got what it takes to make women flock to me. My Daughters seem to think Im still pretty dangerous and they keep warning me to beware of young gold diggers and spinsters showing up at my door with casseroles……lol. One of my Daughters is offended I would even think about dating again but my Wife insisted many times that I find another wonderful woman to love when she passes. That was a hard many conversations to have because I never had any desire but after she passed that loneliness set in and that stuff is no joke….I dont wish this on any man foreign or domestic. One of my Daughters told me I just need to get out there and bang as many chicks as possible just to get it out if my system but I told her I don’t move that fast and Im not into STD’s. Im just hoping I CAN find another wonderful Woman at my age that isn’t a freaking mess. Im 53 by the way…..still plenty of mojo left and Im in better shape now than when I was in my 30’s. I just need to give it a try and be myself. Its kind of scary because I still have a pit in my stomach and feel like a magnet that lost its other half when Im in public. Kinda feels like learning to walk all over again.

We all love Bobby ❤

“You’re not going to say, I’m going to have to spank you to your female boss” Well, now hang on there Bobby… maybe you’ll get a raise if you do

This was huge Bobby!! I would get stuck in the fun topic and found it so hard to transition even when looking back I needed to hit the offramp and transition onto another topic.

Best video from BR I have seen in that it seems very actionable

Some of this is genius Bobby. Thank you for what you do to help us.

Woohoo Bobby I have been on this self development journey but I can definitely see potential ❤❤❤ on working on this pillars for my self I don't feel like I need a woman in my life I got divorced 2 year ago turning the page over and starting fresh on the market 🎉🎉🎉🎉

😁 I have those "connected, extra element" conversations with my friend's girl friend. 😋

Well done. Enjoyable learning.

If it's this complicated now I just don't care. I believe the attraction is there or it's not. Every long term girlfriend I have had it just happened with no thought. I'm the same with all my dates. It's just a numbers game is what it appears to be.

Eating Ben and Jerry's at 2 am dam that's a fine example of an emotional experience.

Thank you

The lighting makes it look like your hair is purple grayish which is kinda cool 😄