Why women leave Men Who Are Great Providers and Protectors

Remember men, it's your fault. You didn't make her "emotional safe" But Chad made her "emotionally safe" 3 minutes after meeting her in the bar. So safe she went to the bathroom with him 3 minutes after meeting him and now has his unit in her mouth. You are to blame for not making her "emotionally safe" Modern women get a huge thumbs down. They are so full of it.

Good comments Rachael but I think something is still overlooked. A commitment was made to love and support for life. What does it say about the character of a wife or anyone who can simply justify destroying another person in the name of "seeking purpose". It's hard and been hard but it comes down to one person who lives with their commitments and one person who feels they are totally entitled and if the spouse is in the way they simply get run over. It's shameful to hurt people this way and totally narcissistic to hurt someone that has given so much without regard of how it affects. It is a mystery to have lived so long without really knowing what your spouse was capable of doing.

Just do not get married or live with a Woman. Massive numbers have chosen this path and are enjoying their freedom-The old model is almost over

Let her find her agency by herself,and put yourself and your best interests first

Ita better for a man not to marry. Is a terrible deal. You can have love, companionships , intimacy and even family without signing any contract.

Agree with so many of the frameworks on this channel and have found compassion through understanding. Not sure marriage should be a thing anymore given these factors.

Except they still want you to provide and protect with alimony and child support.. that’s their “purpose” Sounds more like raising a child than a life partner..

Racheal you are really making a good case for men never to even contemplate committing and investing in marriage. The risk of a rug pull 20years down the road is too great

It’s unsafe for men to get married, if it goes south the quality of life drops. I have seen my brother, cousin and friends go through it. Children get used as a weapon. It destroys them.

I supported my wife for the past 10 years. I worked so hard to put her through college and medical school and was hoping myself to retire when she began working. She took and took, and when I was about to retire she ditched me. Now she wants half of our savings that I had planned to use to retire. The ultimate selfish act after she took what she needed. I'm sad but I will survive and learn from this.

Take away alimony, divorce settlements and child support, and watch the divorce rates plummet.

After 28 years together and 24 years married my wife started telling me that she didn’t need me, she wanted to want me, and i heard that for 3 years. I worked a full time job maintained our multiple properties and was the primary caregiver to our kids and gave her the freedom to grow in her career and now she is on top of her career and travels all the time. Now i am left with my kids picking up the pieces as she sails off to pastures that are not any greener. I did everything at home to lighten her load, and she went and met someone else. No video will explain why that happened.

Interesting take... She's making the case for a prenup... Instead of gratitude for her husband's provision and sacrifice, she's empowered to do her thing, no matter what... They could have opened a chain of restaurants, sold franchises and retired to Mexico... Now, he shouldn't let his ego get in the way, but if he allowed his dream to die, and hers to bear fruit, why is he still with her?

This makes alot of sense to me, Thank you so much Rachel, Went through a divorce a year ago and your videos have really helped me😊

So she becoming an empowered women give her the right to leave? What is loyalty to her? What is humanity? Respect? Is it all about money?

OMG Thankyou! Finally I can make sense of her leaving our marriage.

From what you have said in this video you have confirmed the notion of the higher rates of divorce upon working and "well educated" women whom think when they become higher ranked in work/status that they have overpowered the man they have married and will not hestiate to leave when their "emotions" get triggered for any silly reason.

So men work and develop their careers and income for the Family and to nourish the giving. Women develop to have the "feeling of agency" to end a relationship.

A couple is a team work…..this is what women do not recognize.

I am not mentioning this from a red pill brainwashed place, but it is something I’ve found to be consistent from my experiences, women I’ve met and conversed with since my divorce, and seeing things in divorce groups (not manosphere-based - both genders): hypergamy is a factor