If An In-Law Asked You To Borrow Money Without Informing Your Spouse...

If they say "dont tell", that's a red flag. Say NO!

$800 is alot to give without talking to your partner. Now you have to fess up and listen to his mouth. He already knew his sister was shady.

Never keep secrets from your spouse. It just causes discord between you. ❤

You have to tell people no. The word NO is your friend. 😁

If u can not afford to give it to them don’t loan it to them u will never get it back because the family will fall apart

Never loan any money ur not willing to lose. That $800.00 will cost her more In the end.

If there’s a Will there’s a way, it ain’t there, figure it out 😂🤣 good luck 👍🏽💯‼️

❤😂the $40 got funky from sitting in their funky @$$ pockets

EXACTLY EXACTLY EXACTLY

Yep, gave my sis-in-law money without letting my spouse know. Once it's not a habit, it's all good.

Just say, "No!"

No borrowing either i give it as a gift or i don't

Before I go around borrowing I will set up arrangements! Like Gary say Pawn Shop! or Pray harder!😊❤❤❤

She probably said don’t tell her brother cause he knew how she was. But if you loaned your own mo at and not the house money that your decision. But don’t lend out what you can’t afford to get back. Cause believe her husband is giving and lending money to his family without telling her.

If you expect the money back then you don't loan money to your family. I am with Gary give them a small amount, let them figure out the rest.

If we have a relationship , yeah, I'll let her get the money. Now, she would definitely be paying me back within two weeks of that Vegas trip.

1. If you can't afford to lose it forever, don't let ANYONE borrow it. 2. A request for non-transparency to your spouse in such a transaction is a NO! I went through this with my Jamaican ex-mother-in-law just before we got married. At the time, she and her son were not on good terms to the point he didn't want her at the wedding. She came asking me to tell her son, my fiancé, that I needed a specific amount of money for her to do something for our wedding on my behalf. I was in shock and told her no immediately! It broke my heart as well. I was not going into my marriage with deception against my spouse. He would have been mad at me and back in good with her, and from then on, I'd be the devil daughter-in-law.