Stop telling people your business.

But Kell-Bell, I just want everyone to know about my rash!

“If they don’t know your dreams, then they can’t shoot them down.”

Sometimes I think people over share because they’re lonely.

I think there's a fine line between vulnerability and oversharing. It's really about right place, right time, right person. Social media is rarely any of those things.

I keep destroying boundaries because I want people to understand me as a person and to hear my feelings, but this gives me a whole different perspective.

The art of mystery.

“Not everyone wants to see you win” TRUTH

I’ve been guilty of this. I remember oversharing because I felt I could make a more genuine connection because I was being “real.” When I didn’t get the same sharing back I felt embarrassed, I resented people when they weren’t willing to tell me about themselves in the way I did for them. Even though I would feel really uncomfortable and vulnerable when I overshared I felt it was still better than being cold and closed off. This ended up with me completely isolating myself because I couldn’t handle the emotional exertion that came with sharing myself with others. I guess it’s about balance, not feeling that you need to offer every part of yourself or avoid the relationship completely, but taking the time to feel out what is comfortable for you and the person you’re with.

Don’t stay quiet but be selective about what you share and with whom

I’ve been so guilty of over sharing and I cringe whenever I think about it 😭 I love this video. Keep up the good work babe - Ika

”Once you’ve lost your privacy, you realize you’ve lost an extremely valuable thing.” – Jodi Rell.

I'm naturally a quiet person. People would ask why I'm so quiet so I would try to be more talkative, saying too much like you said. I didn't like myself. Now I'm back to my true self, quiet and I like it. Keeps them guessing. Thank you so much.

A thing that bothers me a lot is people who overshare their children's lives on social media. Children cannot give informed consent. Reprehensible, tbh.

Moral of the story: You do not need other people’s validation !

I think journaling our thoughts and feelings at times is better than letting a human know...

I learned that from my life. Never share your personal story to people in workplace. They will judge you and gossip about it

People don’t care about what happened to you ,but then they can use it against you one day, so just don’t share too much and be careful and make sure have someone to tell them everything because then you wouldn’t need to be Oversharing to anyone

That old quote, "People want you to do well, but not better than them." Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one not stuck in "the matrix" and I love it here. 🤷🏾‍♀️

"Talk less. Smile more. Don't let them know what you're against or what you're for."

"A private life is a peaceful life." Next time some nosey body asks me a question I am going to use your quote 😁