Narcissistic Abuse | 5 Tips To Escape

I know it’s a different dynamic but, when I became a mother I finally had understood what love feels like for me. I finally realize no one that feels real love for another person would want to control, emotionally, or physically abuse the person they love.

Surviving a narcissistic relationship is damaging on so many levels. I think a big one for me is that subsequent relationships and partners never measure upto to when I was being loved bombed. It's fucked up coz I know that none of that was real and it was someone running an agenda on me.

You just described my whole life

Why do people think you have to be together if you “love” some one?

I just left my narcissistic husband, three months ago, and I feel like I am still completely in love with him even though he broke every rule in a marriage, mentally physically and emotionally don’t understand. I thought I was smarter than this. I feel like I’m dead, completely dead without him at the same time. I’m scared of him and I can’t stand him. Nothing makes sense any more.

The “illusion” of love… truth 👍🏼

Highly recommend the Matrix course. 👍🏼😊 I’ve been following Richard G now for nearly 2 years and received support from his coaches. I have had other therapy, but I think the mainstay and the most consistent and strongest message that I have received to overcome narcissistic abuse has been from Richard. I can now say I have recovered!! 🥳 I’ve learnt deeply about emotional regulation and just getting there with the final stage for me which is self-esteem and people pleasing. Some of this later stage I’m doing by trying to set boundaries but I agree with Richard in another recent video that if you have the self-worth, then the boundaries just come naturally, and can be done with Compassion.

I know why. Because I loved them for real and didn’t fake it, even if they were toxic and hurting me. I thought “understanding they were only hurting me because THEY were hurting” WAS “UNCONDITIONAL LOVE” It’s gross walking through life NOT liking MOST of the people you have ever loved 😳🤷🏻‍♀️ What’s even more messed up, is loving people who hurt you, any way 🤪🤦‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ “Coming mother” 🤪😂😂😂❤️

That’s really helpful particularly around having PTSD flashbacks and to see them as a warning. Still strong currents arising after 10years separated from an emotional and highly charged physical relationship between 2 borderlines! Thank you.

Soul tie. Seek Jesus to break it. Becoming “one flesh” with someone creates a bond. We weren’t intended to go around doing that. For those of us who understand-let them understand this.

We still love the Narc because we were in love while the Narc was future faking

It was the only relationship I ever had that I was lonely. There is no capacity for love, the narcissist is not real. It's Fake 💯

I would really like to watch this but it’s nearly 1am where I am but just a word to declare that I am in no danger of still “loving” my “former” fragile narc… 😘

Very well said.. again! 👏🏻 I love how he captures the essence of everything in a just few points. Of course, there is a lot going on in the background of each point, but this is superb - short and concise! 🤘🏻

Richard, you're so on point that I feel I owe you my improving mental health. Thank you. 🙏

No! I’ve learned so much about myself. Looking forward to hearing what Richard has to say 😀

Great video Richard Short sweet and to the point.... It takes time to heal. We are attract to heal. Never forget that. As hard as it may feel. A break down is a break through.

This is so true, the ruminating bit and the negative emotion, PTSD flashbacks. That was dangerous, please don’t do it again, stay away from that, I’ll engrave that in my mind, thanks a lot ❤

Thanks, Mr. Grannon. I’ve started working for a family law attorney in the last couple of months. Even though I’m not in a place where I need your help so much anymore, I have a lot of acquaintances and people who check my social media who do. Therefore I will be sharing your stuff a bit more on social media. Thanks again for helping me out of bad headspace a couple of years ago and the good free advice you dole out. 😊

thank you for making this video, Richard, people who educate on emotional well-being and self-care are part of the true saviors and protectors in this world ❤