Can you get through this? Trauma therapist REACTS to XXXTentacion Jocelyn Flores

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Published 2023-09-19
This is my reaction to XXXTentacion Jocelyn Flores from the perspective of a trauma therapist.
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WHO AM I?
I am a BABCP accredited cognitive and behavioural psychotherapist living in the south of England. I specialise in working with people who have experienced trauma to help them move forward with their lives.

On this Youtube channel I try and make information more accessible by discussing psychological concepts through reacting to popular media.

My qualifications:

PhD (trauma informed services)- Ongoing
Master of Science (MSc) Psychology
Post Graduate Diploma in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (High Intensity)
Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) (Levels 1,2,3,4)
Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) Child and Adolescent Level 1 and 2)
Bachelor of Science (BSc) Mental Health Nursing

All Comments (21)
  • @24kbad17
    Once again just gonna remind u have no idea how much this means to the juice fans and the X fans
  • These reactions keep his name alive so I think I can speak for all of his fans and say Thank you 🙏he would’ve took over the world by now
  • @makandalp
    Used to hear this 24/7 1 year ago. These lyrics never leave your head
  • Conversations about his „haste decisions“ are about a big controversy of XXXTENTACION that has largely sculpted the image most people had in that time of X. He was in an out of jail in his teen years for various reasons like robbery and posession of a firearm. Keep in mind, this was at his lowest of lows both from being around the wrong people and also taking steroids. That wasnt only reflected by his behavior, but all of the music he released prior to 17 has been violent and loud as well. The biggest controversy however was, when we was 16 his then girlfriend had cheated on him leading him to physically abuse her and even lock her in his apartment until she escaped. After going viral and being released from jail, X has taken big, and I mean really big steps towards changing his behavior and even began initiating contact with his single-mother again, which has neglected and abused him through his early life and wasn’t even present through big parts of his life. Almost all of his music and social media posts from then onwards were then focused on bettering and being a better human and using his platform for good. Geneva, the ex girlfriend mentioned, forgave him, became friends with him and even dropped her charges. She still mourns his death to this day. Eventough the charges were dropped by her, the state persecuters still proceeded to press charges even doubling down and saying him meeting with her counting as witness tampering - because he wasn‘t supposed to be in contact with her during the trial. There‘s a posthumous documentary about him which adresses about this and some other parts of his life, even having Geneva herself speak about the issue.
  • @Raddkann
    breaks my heart all over again when i hear her story again
  • @orion5028
    The last part is not x singing, it’s a different artist named Shiloh Dynasty. X borrowed their song and put his song and lyrics over it, as he does with a few more songs
  • @bandiesl3316
    Really sad man, rest in peace to both. Pain is invisible, you cannot see it, people mask it really well these days. Watch out for your close ones at all times! much love.
  • @WhyAmiTheBozo
    The way he brought up “numb” before X said it at the end
  • @jasperewald
    This song is about Jocelyn Ampero Flores, a 16 year old girl that commited suicide, X made this song cause he knew her very well. R.I.P to Jocelyn and Jahsey (XXXtentacion) hope they are both in a good place right now.
  • @FallenCreed
    These reactions are amazing! Sharing X's music to others is very important! Thank you and keep up the great work!
  • @Skreamn
    With xxxtentacion especially if you listen to a lot of his music from the rage to the sad music and the times they come out it shows a pattern of development and he started to be positive and help with his music for people who need it and in some songs he hints at and on a live about a week he died he felt like things were going to end so he wanted to heal as much as he could (himself and others)
  • @xunni2704
    i can never listen to this song anymore without tearing up, like most x songs. But I really appreciate the reaction and deep dive from a professional view point, and keeping his name alive.
  • @otmmanny
    If you listen to the introduction of the 17 album it’ll help you understand how and what his thoughts truly were
  • The 17 album is amazing and is his saddest, deepest, most relatable album. You should check it out. It has Revenge, Jocelyn Flores and other songs u might know. I love your reactions and appreciate your opinions. Keep doing what you doing
  • @2bluntsmokey
    As an X fan I love this video and I love ur reactions to his music this means so much to me 🖤
  • @RnOfficial077
    Thank you for your reaction we need more of these love from India 🇮🇳
  • @GuestKey
    really loved this video and the research you did truly was an amazing reaction 😓
  • @jkfranjk7515
    Thank you for doing these videos, you're the best