Is the Idea of Virginity Outdated? Virgins vs Non-Virgins | Middle Ground

“you’re taught about how to put on a condom, what chlamydia is, what AIDS is, but you’re not taught if you really wanna do it.” wow.

The girl who has little interest in sex has the most sensible views on it...

i’m so proud of her for handling that “everything happens for a reason” line so gracefully, because as a victim of rape, i don’t see myself being able to keep my composure

Don't say "everything happens for a reason" to someone who has experienced sexual assault.

I feel like the girl in yellow went home thinking she did well...until she read the comments

Wtf “everything happens for a reason” is NOT how you respond to someone describing having been sexually assaulted.

I'm 22, a Virgin, never had a girlfriend, never kissed anyone , no stress, just a normal peaceful life

Nothing wrong with having sex before marriage. Nothing wrong with waiting after marriage. Go at your own pace.

'I'm Nico, I'm 19 and I'm really scared my mom is going to see this" lmao, the perfect line.

the girl who said "well everything does happen for a reason" right after vanessa told how she lost her virginity should think better before she says something

Rahan gives me “I think I’m better than everybody” and airhead vibes.

Vanessa is so strong for telling her story about her mom. I hope she is doing well and can find someone in the future

I just believe that whether you a virgin or not, nobody should be judged or mocked about it. It's just really disrespectful.

Is it me or yellow jacket vibes be giving me that she thinks she better than everyone in the group

The minute she said “everything happens for a reason” made my eyes widen because I know how it feels to be told that when something out of your control happens

The thing about Rahan is that it isn't exactly what she's saying, it's her body language when she does it. As someone who has been very insecure in the past, she seems to be just that. She's trying so hard to fit in and seem chill about it all that she looks the opposite. I grew up in South Asia so I'm well aware of the culture and shame when it comes to sex. She probably never had to sit in a room and talk about something that is considered taboo. So she seems to be trying to act casual about it and overcompensating while constantly feeling out of place. I honestly don't think she's bad in anyway. She's just inexperienced. Either that or she thinks she's better than everyone else cuz she's "pure".

I'm so glad they put a masculine, good-looking man on the virgin side... So good to break that stereotype!!

The muslim girl sounds so condescending like she thinks she’s better than the everyone else

“everything happens for a reason” that was such a terrible thing to say

I really connect with Vanessa. When I lost my “virginity” I was raped… and when I went to my mom about it she told me I was lying and just didn’t want to tell her I was having sex and it really does hurt when they are supposed to care for you and want to protect you from harm.