Is the Idea of Virginity Outdated? Virgins vs Non-Virgins | Middle Ground

Us muslims don’t claim Rahan who tf says to someone who’s been sexually assaulted “everything happens for a reason” babe where tf do u live in??another dimension??

“you’re taught about how to put on a condom, what chlamydia is, what AIDS is, but you’re not taught if you really wanna do it.” wow.

i’m so proud of her for handling that “everything happens for a reason” line so gracefully, because as a victim of rape, i don’t see myself being able to keep my composure

Don't say "everything happens for a reason" to someone who has experienced sexual assault.

Wtf “everything happens for a reason” is NOT how you respond to someone describing having been sexually assaulted.

I feel like the girl in yellow went home thinking she did well...until she read the comments

Nothing wrong with having sex before marriage. Nothing wrong with waiting after marriage. Go at your own pace.

Rahan gives me “I think I’m better than everybody” and airhead vibes.

i feel like girl in yellow doesn’t have any malicious intent and seems like an okay person, but some of the things she said are extremely tone deaf.. 😬😬

The muslim girl sounds so condescending like she thinks she’s better than the everyone else

I'm 22, a Virgin, never had a girlfriend, never kissed anyone , no stress, just a normal peaceful life

The thing about Rahan is that it isn't exactly what she's saying, it's her body language when she does it. As someone who has been very insecure in the past, she seems to be just that. She's trying so hard to fit in and seem chill about it all that she looks the opposite. I grew up in South Asia so I'm well aware of the culture and shame when it comes to sex. She probably never had to sit in a room and talk about something that is considered taboo. So she seems to be trying to act casual about it and overcompensating while constantly feeling out of place. I honestly don't think she's bad in anyway. She's just inexperienced. Either that or she thinks she's better than everyone else cuz she's "pure".

The girl who has little interest in sex has the most sensible views on it...

the girl who said "well everything does happen for a reason" right after vanessa told how she lost her virginity should think better before she says something

as a muslim person myself, I'm quite ashamed of how Rahan represented being a believing Muslim. Being a believer has nothing to do with justifying someone's trauma, it's being compassionate toward them with no judgment. And someone can bring up their religion so many times before it becomes super super entitled and cringy 😑

Vanessa is so strong for telling her story about her mom. I hope she is doing well and can find someone in the future

Is it me or yellow jacket vibes be giving me that she thinks she better than everyone in the group

'I'm Nico, I'm 19 and I'm really scared my mom is going to see this" lmao, the perfect line.

I love the fact that the asexual woman is the one who knows the most about sex and seems the most sex positive. Honestly it's a testament to her character that she'd take such a sincere interest in learning about something that she's not interested in. It is a bit ironic though. Love that she was included. I knew asexuals existed but I've learned more about them because of this video.

I really connect with Vanessa. When I lost my “virginity” I was raped… and when I went to my mom about it she told me I was lying and just didn’t want to tell her I was having sex and it really does hurt when they are supposed to care for you and want to protect you from harm.