Are Single Women Truly Happy? Dealing With Societal Pressures, Marrying the Wrong Person & Much More

I’m so blessed today as i came across this video Am having goosebumps as I type this Have been away from Nigeria since 2020 and right now am 27 years, my mummy and my daddy’s family has being pressuring me to come home and get married, this pressure made me go into relationships with a guy i asked out myself because before the pressure i don’t give any man a chance so they all moved on because I always turn them down In this my long distance relationships, I’m not happy because the guy treats me anyhow and I’m enduring because I really want to get married to please my mom and my daddy’s family Now after watching this, my mindset change immediately, I was tearing up and speaking positive words into my life I will wait, find myself, establish myself, get my goals then i will decide when it comfortable for me to get marry NO MORE PRESSURE ✊

Take yr time gals,the worlds pressure doesnt end,i was widowed four years ago yu cant imagine am now being pressured to move on ....to find love again bla bla bla😂😂😂😂😂 this pressure doesnt end.enjoy yr life as it unfolds...theres aseason for evrything according to Gods plan and will

Weldone Winnie and Moji!❤ This is a topic I am very interested in. I had written a poem on the subject and I hope it'll be okay for me to share. I just hope more women find you. A LOVE UNBOUND In the garden where dreams and destinies grow, Where petals of purpose and passions do show, I wander with heart open, no rush in my stride, For love is a river, not a tethered tide. Society whispers, “Hurry, don’t delay, For youth slips like sand, and chances decay.” But I, with a soul that savors the sun, Will not race to an altar, not to be a nun. For I am complete, a universe vast, My spirit unbounded, my journey steadfast. Marriage, a chapter, not the whole tome, Love, a melody in my heart’s vibrant home. Should I find a partner, our paths intertwined, It’ll be for love’s sake, not from fear’s bind. A union of equals, not a cage or a snare, Two stars in one sky, both brilliant and rare. But if in this lifetime, alone I remain, I’ll dance with the moon, and kiss the rain. My happiness rooted in self’s deep embrace, No void, no lack, no empty space. For love’s true essence, it starts within, A flame in the heart, not just a skin. To love and be loved, yes, this I desire, But my life’s purpose burns with its own fire. So let the world murmur, let it proclaim, That time’s running out, that success is a shame. I’ll write my own story, in verses and hues, Living a love that I’ll never refuse. A love for myself, for the journey I take, A love that won’t falter, that won’t ever break. And if fate gifts me a partner, to share in the night, It’ll be a blessing, a beautiful sight. But know this, dear world, my joy will not dim, If I never find him, I’ll still shine within. For I am my own, a masterpiece rare, A life full of love, with none to compare.

I always say that life is a journey with different phases, and we'll most likely go through some or all of it. Your single phase is that time that truly reforms or forms you, shape you, you discover alot about yourself, you pay more attention if you're intentional about your life, my single phase is one of my most cherished moments, I enjoyed it I must say. I'm in my 30's not married and not bothered because my life is a journey filled with purpose, so grow, learn, invest in yourself and glow, stay away from any form of pressure, seek clarity and direction. Much love Winnie and Mojibade. It's lovely to see you both hanging together ❤️

I will alright three things that stood out for me. 1. Date yourself: I must learn to date myself, take me out and treat myself. 2. Invest into myself for my self: this is because I am the most constant person in my life. 3. I must discover my self for myself: I must take my time to discover purpose for life, I have a lot more to offer to the world if I discover me. Thank you so much Winnie, I am inspired.

I am so thankful to God for finding this channel. Good living with God at the center. Thank you, Winnie, for following your dreams and taking action. You are really helping me. Very, very much. God bless you, Winnie.

Yeepee ❤ I'm so delighted with our guest today 🎉

Newly divorced _I wish i saw this before I got married - please single ladies don’t succumb to societal pressure for the sake of “marriage and Instagram wedding” - you will regret only you and your partner when the wedding is over will face eachother

Thank you Winnie for this video. The point of finding yourself for yourself can not be emphasized enough...I really needed this.

And thank you for mentioning the part of feeling insecured of our success

Awwww ❤️ I am with my pop corn and fresh juice to chill, watch and learn. Thank you Winnie for always bringing up topics and teaching right. Much love from Chetachi ❤❤❤

Not me trying to catchup on this space and upon landing, I find Moji!!!!!.🤭🤭🤭 Started following Moji on IG in May and I'm always thrilled by her. You can't imagine how delighted I am to see her here😍😍love, love, love this combo!!!! Thank you Winnie🥰

40:00 An unhappy individual will almost always be an unhappy spouse.. whether female or male

Hello Ladies ! I am so happy that I found this Channel ! As a lady from Guadeloupe (french island), i am used to watch your videos to improve my English ! Today, I coudl feel your words about being happy in this single phase 🙏🏾 in my soul. It s a pleasure, I wish I could have known this mindset earlier. But God is good ! You give me more strength in my journey. Merci encore, Stay blessed !

Ladies, Ladies, You both are so inspiring. Much love❤and appreciation 🎉

This exactly was like the topic we treated in my lecture room...I mean once one begins to see red flags runn😊❤

Thank you so much... Just right on time...i refuse to allow myself to be pressured over anything but to become a better version of myself ❤❤ Am grateful for the heads-up!!

I travelled home last 2weeks,my aunt asked me *what is your stand with men, where's is your man, I'm giving you between now and Christmas to get a husband* I just respectfully told her to put it in prayer,i told her not to expect to hear from me again till God knows when

Thank you for always sharing reality. Truly there’s no formula to live but it’s always ideal to level up all aspects of your life and feel fulfilled. By so doing, the right the people will come to you.

God! I'm still discussing about this yesterday evening till I see this video and I'm screaming 😱, this is much and value packed.🔥🔥🔥 God bless you Winnie and Moji, I love you both.🥰❤️❤️