You are contagious | Vanessa Van Edwards | TEDxLondon

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Published 2017-06-27
Vanessa reveals that our behaviour, from hand gestures to how we say 'hello', changes the way others perceive our confidence,

Vanessa Van Edwards is an interpersonal intelligence expert and public speaker. Her behaviour research lab ‘The Science of People’ has been featured in Fast Company, Inc, Men’s Health, Forbes, and on Fox News. She is a monthly columnist for Entrepreneur; the leading instructor in people skills on Udemy and CreativeLive; and has led training sessions at a number of Fortune 500 companies around the world. She lives in Portland, Oregon.

This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

All Comments (21)
  • @witty-M
    "Anxiety and excitement are very similar emotions, the only difference is the mindset" this is gold ❤️
  • @thetechpmm
    instead of: 1. what do you do? 2. where are you from? 3. how are you? try: 1. working on anything exciting these days? 2. have any vacations coming up? 3. anything good happen today. this is gold.
  • @jamesraven9985
    she's basically teaching everyone how to do ted talk the most effective way on stage. she's amazing!
  • @JB-rl4ik
    I really hate it when someone politely asks you a question and you can tell by their dead eyes and posture they really don't care what the answer is, even before you've started speaking.
  • @ShylieKay
    Completely remembered why I used to be so confident. I was so much fun! I was unpredictable, funny, goofy and knew it. Anymore, I'm thinking my losses have stolen those things and that's why I'm alone so much. I need to remember myself and be more positive. Thanks for this Vanessa!
  • "If we show up to events we are ambivalent about, interact with people we don't really like, we become less memorable." This sentence will stay with me. Exceptionally good talk.
  • @zephaudi
    psychology is soooo interesting and amazingly useful.
  • @damn_its_salin
    Takeaway: open hands, dopamine-worthy conversation and authentic smile makes your more memorable and viral for sure..☺️
  • @nijansinsuat
    Her presence already made me excited. Her aura her spirit and her enthusiasm, they're definitely contagious. And for those looking for going viral kind of thing, what matters is she did her best and you could see it. Real life events don't look for statistical figures but more on meaningful impact. Love her already.
  • @CaliBabyCooks
    She’s awesome. The “looking at nothing” study was hilarious. I’m going to try that.
  • @Its_vickkiii_
    I’ve never seen anyone that looked and presented themselves so genuine that not once did I feel a negative or an uncomfortable emotion while watching this!! I REALLY like her energy:)
  • @restymacalisang
    Did she just teach me PEOPLE skills in 3 simple ways? OMG!!! I am going to start asking those questions!!!!!
  • @jpjp9111
    I saw her in real life before she released her book. She's has a very genuine personality.
  • @leshreddur
    Awkward girl blossomed into a brilliant, beautiful, sincere lady 😉
  • @PRonYouTube
    Such an entertaining and informative talk! My takeaways: - our emotions are contagious, so others will pick up on how we feel - facial expressions + body language can be THE TRIGGER for your emotional reality, instead of just vice versa! - frame dialogue/questions in terms of positive words instead of negative or empty ones. - all this makes me realize, I need to do power poses + affirmations more!
  • Guys, while reading the comments you will notice something : There's no hateful comments. At all. And I know it because I've read them all. So this is true : This lady has increased our dopamine, we all feel happy and excited ! Let's show this to the whole world 😉💪🏻