Importance of SETTING BOUNDARIES w negative people (ESPECIALLY family!) | Alana Greene

Just some positive thoughts, your love for Miss Lola is awesome. I was looking at the markings on Lola's face, she is absolutely such a cute dog.

You were TRULY a God-sent to me because I was in the same kind of mental trouble when I found you on YT. No other person would've worked for me. Thank you for reminding me.

I wish you all the best, I used to follow you because of the dark night of the soul talks, so glad you back. Hope you have a good birthday. Good you speak the truth.

Some people don't know what they do, but some know what they do... Unfortunately. More than 10 years ago, I would curse my certain classmate, and I knew what I was doing. I wanted to send the negativity, and be part of darkness and disappear... I tried to believe I was born of it. That was a terrible spiral, but I had no way of resisting it. Deep down I wanted to resist it, but I wasn't strong enough. I didn't think it could be resisted. Then I found Jesus after a journey, and I was able to repent from it. So I pray for anyone who struggles against this darkness of this world. If they seek light now, they still have a chance. The difference is if they want it or not.

Thank you for sharing your story. I’ve followed you since Queen Higher Living days and one thing that is constant about you, is that you are REAL and willing to share that with others! So thank you. I can also very much relate about the narcissistic family dynamic you’ve dealt with. It’s like you were explaining my life. I have officially went no contact with most of my bio family November 2021. It’s been a rollercoaster of emotions but I know it was what had to be done. To save myself. I feel more at peace now. I thought when I lost my bio family I lost everything (that’s what they’ve programmed me to believe so I wouldn’t ever leave) but I am finding so much love and peace in my life. I was upset because I felt abandoned by my family. But now I’m realizing I have a family in Christ and many many others who love me here on this Earth!

I love you Alana thank you for sharing your spirituality with us during your difficult times. You’ve been through a lot .. this explains why you are now so emotionally intelligent & aware of what’s going on

The weather has been like our emotions. Yes I can relate 100% to all you have said and talk about. I have dealt with it not so much when I was Younger but as an adult the past 30 years for sure. I never understood why some people are and do the things they do as much as I have learned the past few years. I No longer beat myself up over it. My Mother and Sister both passed last year. I also came to grips that I have hurt a few people along my journey like my wife of 2 years back when I was 20. I was a kid who didn't have a clue how to be a man. Great news is today I don't need to be a daily drunk to deal with it all

Alana my story is similar to yours, Narc parents and siblings i'm the scapegoat/black sheep who's an Empath/HSP and i also woke up in 2018. I've been NC since Sept 2019 and its THE best thing i ever did i'm evolving and growing up at light speed compared to being in their vortex of lies and abuse. Believe me they KNOW what they're doing and VERY MUCH ENJOY IT!!! They are not doing it unconsciously they are doing it for Narcissitic Supply. Please stay NC! Any contact i've found undoes the progress in healing. So sad hearing your story and how you were in that basement smoking weed depressed, i did exactly the same thing at my parents home. Your depression and anxiety is 100% caused by their abuse and the longer you are away from them the more it'll dissappear. Have you thought of moving interstate? I'm about to and can't wait as they know where i live and sometimes come and visit or send letters even though i don't read them nor answer the door. All my Love....

Whoa. Last time I saw u you living in your parents basement with long blonde hair, saving animals and working at a weed shop. I’ve watched u grow up! Nice to see u back!

it's funny isn't it, people will tell you it's your family and life is too short, you'll regret it blah blah blah, but won't say anything about the people and the behaviour that's caused you to distance yourself. It's always the person that has the courage to step away and put boundaries in place that's expected to fix things and keep the family together lol. I can resonate with what you're saying. Family can be just as bad as strangers on the street. We shouldn't have to tolerate certain behaviour just because it's family. Eventually, you will get sick and tired of being sick and tired.

I totally can relate. We have to care for ourselves 1st. I was supposed to go to my grandpas 98th birthday but I can't bring myself to do it. Way too much toxicity within my family to subject myself to. I wanted to go out of obligation but that feels like betraying myself. Nope. At home cleanin instead 💥

So relatable. So insightful. 💛

There she go. Been a long time. It's great watching you grow.

Thanks for video.

That makes me sick to my stomach that your mom yelled down to you when your were in a depressive state☹️ Very cruel ☹️ Much love to you 🌈💕✨

I have a similar relationship with my dad. I lived alone but my dad on the lease. I payed him rent trusting it would go to the apartment. He never turned on me. Until he got remarried. same month he stopped depositing my rent. I was evicted. I even stayed at his, after. I had a panic attack coming to terms w how much $ he stole. He called it a breakdown and kicked me out. I was homeless in my car , w a broken window. My $ went to his home remodel. He’s gaslighting so I blocked him. The 1st step to my future. finding a home w an eviction is hard but I’m stable other that all of this

Dear Alana, I am on a little break with my boyfriend, my Love and came back to my parents'.. first channel I checked on was yours. And last time I heard of you was when you were still at your parents house. I have seen a few things from you recently, but todays video resonated with me so much, you have no idea. I don't live with my mom and dad, thou there is a small chance to spend a month with them now. You reminded my why I should be causious! Yeah, it's not that much more than just the title of the video, it is mainly you sharing your thoughts, but you are a cool ass girl with a cool ass healthy spirit... and your experience is an advice in itself, since I am a few years younger. You can still love your parents and be protective of your energy! Feeling elements of guilt is normal, but you should not let this stop you from being who you are! A child should only drop everything for a parent if he falls ill, God forbid. In all other situations your health and freedom of spirit is superior!! God Bless you with Love!!

I think I'm late but Happy Birthday. Affliction(your tshirt) is a great song by a group named One Eyed Doll.

You look gorgeous!

Banana + peanut butter is my favorite combo!! Prayer IS so powerful! <3