5 Things You Love BUT NarcissistS HATE

They hate you if you are: 1. Good 2. Bad 3. Religious 4. Non-religious 5. Obedient 6. Disobedient 7. Something 8. Nothing/ anything They just want to keep you in their web of abuse till their end.. Period!

They DO hate holidays. And try to ruin them for everyone

The ability - and opportunity - to share laughter and joy with others is so wonderful. It’s utterly baffling that they hate it.

I sent this to my 19 year old son and I said to him "Doesn't it seem like Danish lived in our CLOSETS??" His response was...... LITERALLY!!!

My mother is a narcissist and she was very abusive to my Dad, siblings and I smd when she was in her bedroom and would hear us laughing she would say we wouldn't be laughing if she was in there with us and go into a narcissistic rage. We couldn't laugh when she was around us because she made us so miserable and walking on eggshells

Spot on!!!! They’re so obviously jealous and miserable

They are Beyond our mind they have their own religion which other people unable to understand

😔idk why these kind of people instead of healing their own wounds are making others life hell...may any miracle happen someday and they could live life like a normal human being. They spend their whole life and just do one thing...devalue humanity 😣

Really a head trip when both parents are Narcs. My covert father played the "good" one against my overt, sociopathic mother. His mask came off when I finally saw the truth of him and confronted him on it. Then he turned into a petulant, sulky martyr.

I always wondered why he seemed to care so much about others but not me. You have answered so many questions I’ve had.

They find no good in others. They are fault finding machines. I am still afraid of holidays. I kmow what i xan expect. First it was my younger sister then. My mil. I used to think what was wrong with me. Coz no one supported me. I wasted so much time in my life suffering at thjer hands. Now i understand why it is. All ur videos gave me hope and halped me

There are two ways of saying something. Someone can say “When I look into your face, time stands still” A narcissist would say: “You have a face that could stop o’clock” Thank you Darnish From JANESVILLE, WISCONSIN USA

I had to listen twice just to absorb all the excellence

Oh my! The Holiday disaster's I could tell you! At the end of my Narc marriage, I would not even go to his mothers on ANY holiday, esp Christmas!! For the last 3 yrs of my 19yr marriage, I refused to be present at Christmas or Thanksgiving. I'm so glad to be completely free of all 3 raging Narcs. Husband, his son, and his mother. My nickname was " the other other white meat"

Narcissists see innocent gestures of kindness, beauty & love as perverse acts becuz that is who they are. Love urself please; don't let them demean u. Individuality is a beautiful thing

5:00 it also seems like they cannot understand why people do not laugh at their jokes (not funny), and are very envious when people laugh at others' jokes instead. they would rather believe other people are conspiring against them or not laughing for them on purpose than accept that they are not funny or someone else is more skilled at comedy.

My dad was the narcissist, and my mom was the sane person. Some time when I was about eight years old, my mom told my dad that I was more of a man than he would ever be. When she told me about that later, I took it very seriously. Over the years that helped me to see through a lot of garbage, and to be brutally honest with myself. A sensitive child from a bad environment, who has insight, can grow up to be vastly more mature and wise than a child who grows up in a healthy family. Danish, you yourself are undeniably a prime example of this phenomenon. And you know what -- after having watched many of your videos as well as those of others on this subject, it seems to me that, in spite of the enormous complexity of this psychosis, narcissism can be neatly summed up as "a personality disorder that develops as a coping mechanism for individuals who are aware they never grew up, but are in denial".

My daughters narc ex used to spit the dummy just because we held Christmas at their home 2 years running, why do we have to do it, he went on and on, at that stage my daughter didn't know he was a narcissist, just thought he was having a sook, I can't thank you enough for sharing about these horrible creatures, supporting from Queensland Australia 🇦🇺🥰

I was my mother’s “Barbie doll”.

In my experience around 2005 my childhood bully hated the stuff I liked. 😊