'Am I an idiot to think I was ever wanted?' BBC Stories

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Published 2018-08-16
The only thing 27-year-old Ria has of her mother is a photo, and a birth certificate which states her mother wants no future contact with her. Ria was adopted by a British couple, and grew up in Scotland, as part of a wave of adoptions from Sri Lanka in the 1980s and 1990s. Now she wants to find her birth mother and ask why she was given away at just three weeks old.

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All Comments (21)
  • @nirmali7356
    Beautiful! I totally relate to this as I'm adopted from Sri Lanka - she was in search of her roots. I wonder how she feels now that she has self defintion and her identity is not in limbo
  • So made me cry. Sri Lankan’s love their children. Their world is simple family and food. You were so good to return to your mother her heart must have broken when she had to give you up. Lovely ending
  • @genie121
    I think this story is beautiful- and i'm glad she was able to track her birth mother down. Whatever the circumstances were, she obviously wasn't in a good position to look after you. At least you can move forward with this new chapter, and always know your roots. All the best Riya.
  • @Annakist76
    Oh wauw, this made me cry so hard I feel like my eyes are going to explode. Bless them all, what a happy, happy outcome <3
  • @rey7184
    You guys should definitely check out and review the story of Saroo Bierley!! Please!! It was truly heart touching and very emotional.
  • @smh6234
    Bro. I'm a grown man and I teared up
  • The mother gave up a child for adoption as they probably did not have the resources to raise you. And usually contacts are preferably not exchanged to avoid future complications like what is happening now. It is a gift to be able to live in Scotland.
  • Adu padu kam nisa daruwa dunnata a amma kochchara hadawathin walapenna athida? Jeevithaya harima pudumai.
  • @Senura101
    Iam from Sri lanka but I have to say why search for the birth mother when you already have a wonderful family ! Now the birth mother might misuse the daughter for money 💵 Just saying 😐