ADDRESSING THE HATE COMMENTS

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Published 2022-09-29

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  • @giselleg8072
    i’ve noticed it getting bad.. what people don’t understand is that you guys get to choose what you want to show us. we will never know what goes on behind closed doors. Keep your head up bb! your REAL supporters got you
  • I feel like it all started when you were talking about your mental health and he basically said you have no reason to be sad/ depressed because the life you have- which I feel like no guy really can understand what we go through after having a baby. I love you both and I agree people will judge your relationship because your life is on the internet for everyone to see. No one knows what happens behind closed doors. Ignore the hate. It’s impossible to be perfect and make everyone happy. Congrats on all your achievements Alo! You been through so much and deserve nothing but the best for you and your little family ❤️
  • @erikalugo6225
    this video actually made me so sad bc people just don’t wanna see you and benny both growing and thriving, can’t wait to see what the future holds your beautiful family 🤍🤍🤍
  • @yesiv916
    As a girl myself who struggles with mental health daily. WHEN YOU SAID “you just don’t get it” it shouldn’t open any doors for people to start hate comments. I completely understand you. My BF and I have a 18 month old, we just bought a house, I am a stay at home mom, he works full time. And I try to explain to him my mental health issues and sometimes it’s not that I don’t trust him but I just don’t want to bring it up to him because even myself, I think, why do I feel this way if I’m so blessed. No matter how we say it, NO ONE WILL EVER GET IT. Only a person who struggles with it will understand. & that is not Bennys fault. As u said, he’s stronger minded and so is my BF. he’s there for me, but his words to make me feel better will always be “look at what we have, a house, health, a baby” because he wants me to see the positive side. Benny is just trying to help and seeing that video of u two before all this hate I completely understood you both bc AGAIN, this is very very normal in a relationship where one struggles with mental health. PPL on social media think it’s ok to judge when I am sure their lives are miserable but will never ever show that bc it’s easier to say “oh Benny needs to be more supportive, mean while they are still single for a reason themselves”
    I have also brought up to my bf in me buying a house for myself. This is nothing against him, but it’s nice as women to have a source of income that no matter what will always be us. I am proud you guys did that, believe me you will never regret your own assets 🥲

    I NEVER READ NOR SPECIALLY WRITE COMMENTS but you guys deserve one. I hope you guys get through this soon ❤
  • @lindalara6335
    I truly admire your courage to speak up and stand up for yourself, your partner and your family together. This vulnerability is empowerment. I respect you saying how you feel, how the comments make you feel and asking for them to please stop for both you and Benny, this is the epitome of effective communication. Proud of you Alondra! 🥰
  • @aimaFHS
    Love the fact that you stepped in to protect your man when you know he’s going through it right now in his personal life. Props to you Alo❤
  • Attagirl Alondra! Sometimes people need to be reminded how hard it is to have a career on Social Media. Sometimes people's actions and comments are stemmed from what they are going through as well. And sometimes there are those that get paid to talk sh!+ on Social Media. You, Benny, and the baby are a beautiful family. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your lives with the YouTube community and thank you for inspiring not only the Hispanic/Latin community, but other communities in striving for their own goals. Much love to you and the family 😘🥰 🤗😍🤩😊
  • I’m so glad your talking about this cause I didn’t understand why people think that you would ever be with someone who would not treat you like a queen you are and Benny is such a genuine and good person I mean you can definitely see it so good for you girl !
  • @beverlymua
    I’m happy you addressed this. The way people are trying to paint Benny as a bad person is really sad. Now I see why people keep their relationship private.
  • Finally it’s been addressed, I felt so bad for Benny. So many people coming for him don’t even know what happens behind closed doors. Be better DO BETTER YALL! Stop the hate comments . We know nothing about them only what they chose to show us !!!!
  • @thedoopa3169
    I never seen this channel in my life. Have no idea why it's on my feed. Honestly I look up science stuff and nerd things and this is far from my demographic. First impression by looks, I'm guilty. I thought another girl with looks and no substance. Then I started hearing her talk. And was like who's Benny. So I skimmed through a couple videos and looked up Benny. A tatted up stocky fella. That's all I have to say, not one of the several random clips did I think anything negative about anyone I have seen. Only thing I think is yall drink too much. But I'm biased about alcohol because I been sober for a while.

    Yall are some cool people, I doubt I'll watch another one of your videos but I'll like this one. As an outsider, yall are alright.
  • @aem8029
    😭Thank you Alondra for defending your partner !! I’m glad your sticking up for your man n putting people in their place girl !! You keep enjoying yalls blessing n keep supporting your man through this hard time for him 😢 I know how close Benny is to his family n losing a family member is never easy to begin with 🥺
  • Just you standing up for your man and family makes you look even more classy and exactly y he fell in love with you in the first place. You both have every right to show what you wanna show on each other’s channels. Keep your head you guys will overcome this ❤🙏🏼
  • Y’all bring back that energy yall had for them in the beginning of their relationship!!!! They’ve grown and developed beautifully together and there’s no need to feed hate into their love! 💯
  • I love that your speaking up and having your significant other's back, but remember you don't have to explain yourself. You're damned if you do and you're damed if you don't. Always. Everyone will always have their own opinion and you can't change that and you can't please everyone. You don't owe anyone explanations. I get you guys are on social media but just let people talk. I'm proud of you guys and congratulations on your house!
  • @Lizzo-rl7lj
    The people who think negative about your relationship shows what type of relationships they have had.
  • This is the true definition of STAND BY YOUR MAN!!! You tell them babygirl!!! Plus no need to explain yourself Mama's, you don't own anyone any explanation, you ppl are always going to make their own assumptions, just keep living y'all BEST lives.. Love you guy's!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
  • @andiipaz690
    People forget that 20 minutes of a video is nothing compared to 24 hours that a day has!! Love you both❤️
  • The problem is social media which is a cesspool of childish jealousy and narcissism. A smart secure person will avoid and ignore it. Young people cannot imagine life without it. Thats a shame.
  • I watch Benny all the time. You have to be blind not to see what a great Dad he is. I wonder where you are at times during his videos. I wonder if you are not feeling well. You are so lucky to have Benny by your side. I suffered with post partum depression, my ex husband would just leave and go out with his friends. I see Benny trying to take you out, on little vacations. Trying to lessen the load on you, to boost you up. I'm happy you guys have each other. Love your family 🥰💝 Congratulations on everything, you guys are accomplished so much. Ignore the trolls, misery loves company. You are doing great, and trust me the dark cloud is temporary, one day you will have nothing but sunshine 💛🙏🙌