TikTok Teaches Us To Be Ladylike (w/ Chad Chad)

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Published 2023-05-22
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  • @habeashumor9814
    Proper ladies don’t confuse the word “graciously” with “gracefully.”
  • @sydnnova
    Jarvis and Jordan not knowing that women are so commonly taught how to sit properly is crazy since its just such a normal thing for women to be told about lmao. Also this episode of the podcast was by far my favorite
  • @MoMo-rx4zr
    The first woman is British and once showed a picture of a tribal tattoo and called it “not elegant”. I felt re-colonized lol.
  • @Snarl_Marx
    If I went on a date and my date started treating me like a child I'd politely say "Excuse me, one moment". And then just leave.
  • @tarabesque3328
    never say bathroom bc real ladies say "I gotta gopissgirl"
  • @bingobazingo9565
    6:39 I love that Chad is gripping her mic like a goblin with the pinky all fucked up, Jarvis is holding it normally and then Jordan has to hold it in a high class aristocratic british manner. It works well with their personalities.
  • @entirelybonkers8832
    I’m sorry if I went on a date and a man “led” me to my seat by my arm and then sat next to me and then started doing everything for me id be so fucking uncomfortable 😭😭
  • @karaleigh_eva
    Okay but the "sitting like a lady" thing we were all nagged for growing up was kinda insidious. The reason adults finding sitting with your legs even slightly parted to be "unladylike" is because they see it as something sexual. They tell us over and over that spreading our legs is "unladylike" but we can't understand why. All we're able to learn is that there's something inherently wrong with our bodies that should make us and others around us uncomfortable.
  • @justinwatson1510
    I never, ever say bathroom in polite conversation. Its my shitting chamber.
  • @eviebaldwin8394
    once as a waitress for a fancy restaurant, they asked me to place customers' napkins on their laps for them and I was like no that's super awkward and infantilising, doing that FOR A DATE?? that's insane
  • @xpa-beads501
    Ladylike? I think you mean lady-liker 😎🤯💥🔥🌪️ (That’s me, I’m the lady liker, I like ladies)
  • @fugitive_
    I have spent the last like 10 years undoing my “ladylike” training i recieved from my mother and grandmother. Went to a restaurant yesterday and just enjoyed the food. Elbows on the table, shoving food into my mouth, dipping the food in sauce. The only “ladylike” training that i still do is dont talk with my mouth full which i think everyone should do, partially full is fine i just think it makes sense to not talk when you are going to blow food out of your mouth when u try and speak
  • @MsEsquire83
    I was raised with being chastised for not sitting “ladylike” as a kid myself. Now I tell my kids to sit however they deem fit/appropriate, but I do tell them to be mindful when wearing dresses or skirts. I use the exact same language for all of my kids - including my son, because if he wants to wear a dress he can.
  • @HaidebugCreates
    6:42 This is probably weird to point out, but it’s actually really nice to see that Jarvis didn’t actually touch Chad Chad when he was talking about the guy making a move. I feel like most people would and he just gestured it. Chad Chad probably would have been okay with it but it’s just nice to see he didn’t touch her randomly without asking.
  • @pepsie7225
    i have this autistic thing where i HAVE to announce when im going to do any private thing (getting into shower, using the bathroom, changing clothes, etc.) cause for some reason i believe if i dont im at risk of someone STORMING IN WHEN IM DOING MY BUSINESS, i think i would be the ladylike community worst nightmare
  • @teresa3567
    If I just said “excuse me” and left the room, my friends would ask me if I’m okay. And I think that would be the correct response.
  • @whatthehelliot
    i had a spinal cord injury when i was little so i didnt have full control over my legs, and on multiple occasions i had doctors/nurses close my legs for me so i could 'sit more ladylike' 🙃 this was at like 7-8 years old
  • @giannacarter9711
    Them being like “ladies do NOT make sandwiches” for a bit while completely circumnavigating the very common “get in the kitchen and make me a sandwich” thing directed at women is so good for my soul
  • @SamanDroid
    The truly ✨elegant✨way to get a waiter to come over is to send them “Look At Me” vibes while you stare at them with your eyebrows raised until you eventually make eye contact