BEING CONFIDENT (what does confidence mean to you?)

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Published 2024-06-21

Growing up, I saw the kind of people that were termed confident: "people who don't give two f**ks", people who are loud, people who are rude and borderline or plainly insutive.

I didn't find any of those attributes appealing and yet, I wanted to be confident, because being confident was the cool thing to be.

I also felt that I cannot pull those stunts off even if I wanted to. I'm too bougie 🤣— actually, I have always been an introvert and being loud has never been my thing.

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I'm now grown, I've cemented the fact that I really hate people who try to put others down. And then, I've also realized that it is my God given human right to design my life in the way I'm inspired to.

I've redefined my own meaning of confidence; IT IS LIVING A LIFE THAT I UNDERSTAND — A LIFE THAT MAKES MEANING TO ME. And CONFIDENCE, IS MAINLY ABOUT RELAXING, It's not fighting. Fighting makes you lose your steeze 🤣. With your confidence, you early on, create boundaries that protects you.

I'm still young and growing, and learning to steady in the meanings I have carved out of life.

#billionshadesgirl #billiondollargirl #confidence

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