5 Ways to Get a Younger Woman's Attention (Tips for "Older Guys" Over 40)

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Published 2022-06-04

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  • Perfect. I learned many of these things after my wife died 3 years ago. Being alone for the past 3 years has allowed me to go inward and discover and accept myself. I have done a 180 on who I used to be. Extremely satisfying and built my confidence. A woman has to earn me.
  • 5:00 The problem with me is that I've always been too good for most women, which has led to my isolation for most of my life.
  • When I was 39 my gf was 21. At 47 I dated a woman who was 29. These relationships lasted a few years. Now I'm 54 and getting to know someone who's about 20 years younger than I. That's how I like it and that's how they like it. And I will continue to get together with younger women. I never plan to be tied down nor do I want to tie anyone down. I never needed dating apps and never plan to use them. I'm not a rich guy, don't have any bling bling. I'm excited and it's awesome knowing I'm going to be getting to know another young lady. What makes this time even better than the others is she's only two doors down. Bobby, your tips are right on.
  • @Steffenwolff
    I agree with everything except for the dating apps.. I find it very very hard to match with younger women on Tinder while I can attract them in real life
  • @djay6651
    As an older guy, I can say first hand, if you're nit already in the gym, get your ass in there. Start pushing that iron. Once you start to feel physically powerful, that WILL cross over into how you carry and project yourself. People will see you as powerful.
  • @Mr.BigNate
    Breh, people need to stop thinking that the advice needs to match their situation exactly. If you can't extract the core content of the info presented, and then apply it to your specific scenario, position, monetary backround, lifestyle. Don't even bother, you've already lost. Stop worrying so damn much. Get out there and shoot your shot. If you need to take your time, then go slow. Move at your own pace regardless of how everyone else moves. That is your power.
  • @hectorpla9322
    I like meeting women personally than on dating apps!...its free, and its alot of fun its good to meet women with groups of firends, and family.
  • You’re the best Bobby. I’m 52 and am seeing a beautiful 24 year old woman. No way without people like you educating me. Thank you 🙏 so much Brother!
  • @TVsez
    Appearance: dress to the occasion, keep on top of your trim, workout, smell nice. All of this will get you compliments which will same you feel more confident
  • @BTFives
    I'm 33 and I've learned something after a year of online dating I wanted to share. After two or three days of texting... don't be afraid to start leaning towards something sexual. Most modern women will go for it and it brings an element of excitement to the conversation. Instead of "how's your day?" Ask them "what's your wildest sexual fantasy?" Usually they are shy and won't tell but that'll spark their interest to ask you the same and this where you shine. Always lean into their pleasure instead of yours when thinking about this answer.
  • @jeanpaul4100
    1. go where the fish are 2. get in great shape 3. dress like a boss.
  • @pleni78
    Hello, I usually don´t write any comments but I have to say your videos are the best of this type I´ve ever seen. I encourage you to keep that good work up. You explain the themes in a way I think everyone can understand. It´s helping me a lot! Congratulations from Spain ;)
  • Nice guy mistakes, that's exactly what I did. After a 34 year marriage my wife left me which was crushing, over a period of time I meet a nice lady and completely messed it up as I totally went full on "nice guy" thinking I was doing the right thing. All I did was push her away, at first it was confusing but after watching Bobby Rio video's I understood how I had messed up. Onward and upward with this new understanding.
  • @murphsviews
    Top tips Bobby. Especially like the masculinity one. Guys who aren’t used to projecting this will be blown away at how powerful it is towards women in the 18-21yo age range in particular. They’re apparently 3 times more ‘susceptible’ to it/affected by it than older women and that’s definitely been my experience since I started learning all this stuff in the last 3-4 years (I’m now 43yo). I’ve been shocked at the chemistry/connection I’ve been able to create with the young ones who serve me at checkouts and counters and reception desks and so-on in as little as a few seconds. Just holding strong eye contact alone with them is incredibly powerful.
  • 1. I am the prize 2. Avoid nice guy mistakes 3. Get on dating apps 4. Act youthful (not young) 5. Project masculinity
  • @Ephesians-xt4xc
    Good practical information. Not sure about the dating apps, but the other points are spot on.
  • I went on a couple dates with a girl that’s a LOT younger than I. It’s fabulously fun. I felt 30 years younger. Nothing is better than a fresh young face.
  • @MartinBurton
    After a lifetime of military experience/law enforcement and extensive travel across Europe as a truck driver...I find that while delivering at places I find that office girls often make a point of making conversation and and on countless occasions I've been asked out...I don't chase anyone...I am 61 and told by girls in their 20s & 30s that I come across as hard as nails...recently I get asked a lot about " Prepping " ...I am married and never allow it to go any further
  • @jolly7728
    It's a revolving door, no matter how old or young a man might be. Precious few of these relationships will last, and this is because neither the guy nor the gal can maintain the facade for more than a few weeks, if that long. Once people go back to being who they really are, they just don't seem very special any more. If there isn't a profound reason for two people to be together, such as survival, then folks will substitute that depth with one superficial dopamine fling after another.