your fear of being seen is only proof it's your calling.

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Published 2024-06-10
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if you FEAR being seen, this is for YOU. i wonder if you ever give yourself the chance to hold space for your DESIRE to be seen? what if this path is yours to walk, and the more you resist it, the more it will scream at you... what if this calling is not yours alone, but ours: the collective who is seeking you back, seeking to see you, feel you, hear you, receive you... longing to be moved by your message. will you believe in us BEFORE we have manifested for you in physical form? we hope

All Comments (21)
  • @catoniya
    For those of us raised in narcissistic environments, we've often been conditioned to suppress our voices, remain fearful, conform, and stay small. Thank you for this message, so have the courage to be seen, be loud, and be authentic
  • @brysonmercury
    Wow. You saying "when you are longing to be heard is when the universe is longing to hear you" resonated so much i had to rewind!
  • @BeauMonroe
    "What if you are feeling and carrying the frequency of desire for all of us who want to see you?" Whoaaaa!
  • @mikalowahren
    You are right. I want to be seen. I feel like I have ideas others could really benefit of. I trust my path. I accept my mission. 🙏💖🌈
  • @yeahdatsjay
    “In the beginning we are the ones on the stage and we are the ones in the audience.” BARS!!!!
  • @Oogwayascents
    There is no greater agony then the untold story within oneself
  • @jamie-zk1sz
    Some people need to face their shadows and some people need to face the light
  • @rayvinrey24
    "The more I resist it the more I will be haunted by what could have been." Thank you for this message. I find myself making up every excuse not to show up, and here you come with "it's not about talent, it's about courage" ♥
  • Girl!!!!!!! No one has said this like this before. Again, I’ve so needed this. I know being seen is part of my healing.
  • @tscst13
    “When a path has made itself known, it is ours to walk.” ❤ carrying this into the day. Thank you.
  • I finally revive my YouTube channel last week after doing 2 years of inner work :face-orange-raised-eyebrow::face-red-heart-shape:
  • @yaguabina
    I was in the middle of rage crying when I saw the title of this video calling me for this very moment. I was furious, livid, thinking back on how objectively alone my path has been. How nobody seems to have ever cared about me. How I've always had to do everything alone and worse, how I can't just give up. It's not just the pain, sweat, blood, and tears that enrages me, it's my stubborn ass never giving up. I couldn't just give in to drugs or alcohol, I couldn't just stop trying at work and stay poor, I couldn't just bed rot and pretend like I don't have responsibilities, I had to compulsively keep fighting tooth and nail. And when it finally got to be too much and I was ready to end my life, I changed it instead. I've been holding back on posting because I didn't feel in a sunshine and rainbows place like many personal growth influencers appear to always be in, but just now I realized...as angry and alone as I feel, I don't want to die. That alone is a miracle. Maybe my message will not be linear, it will change as I evolve, and right now the message is...how to love life even when it's hard, even when you feel like nobody cares.
  • @JourneysInCali
    Yup she was meant to speak. That's it that's all I have to say. ❤
  • @CJDuckett
    I have no idea who you are. I don’t even know how I stumbled on this video or how the algorithm maneuvered its way to put it in place for me to find it…but THIS…this was for me. I’m the one person that needed to hear this. I have been resisting entirely too much. And it is from fear of not being “seen”. And you are right. It’s time for me to lean to the right instead of the left. It’s time to lean towards the side of desire and not fear. It’s time to respond to the shadow side instead of resisting/denying/ignoring it. This was for me today and I just want to say…thank you. It was well received and I am grateful you felt compelled to speak from your heart and post this video for me to find. Thank you sistah. You are appreciated. 🤲🏾❤️
  • @bailarubin4048
    I love all of you guys 🥹🥹🥹🥹 all a bunch of cuties in this comment section
  • @MA3CY
    Ayanda there is not a plate big enough for what you are cooking, yet you continue to both serve and eat, if I might say so. Insightful and beautiful as always, I am so grateful that you allow me to see you, and to see myself through you. Ugh, so much love. <3
  • @queenqahhaar
    "A sense of guilt and self betrayal" 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭"part of your healing"😭😭😭😭😭I want to be seen! So many years I have hid myself so that others could be seen!!! Thank you so much for these powerful words. I felt the burden lift from me.❤🙏🏾💪🏾
  • @bailarubin4048
    The power in this video is wow!!!!! Your channel is going to be HUGE!
  • @Zoominero
    “What if the point of that longing, that desire isn’t any outcome but the transformational journey of healing you would need to walk to stay on that path…” wow just freaking WOW