I spent a day with TRANS WOMEN: "Controversial to be a Woman"

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Published 2022-08-27
I spent a day with Trans Women to learn the truth about transitioning and the complexities of living as a woman in the world today. Sponsors ▸Visit joinhoney.com/PADILLA to get Honey for FREE ▸ Get a 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/padilla ▸ Go to betterhelp.com/padilla to get 10% off your first month!

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0:00 Introduction
2:36 THE FIRST EXPOSURE
3:08 TELLING THE WORLD
6:21 FROM MALE TO FEMALE
10:41 "DON'T USE MY DEAD NAME"
16:11 THE TRANS AGENDA
17:14 TRANSGENDER BATHROOM CONVERSATION
18:21 SHOULD TEENS TRANSITION?
19:53 DE-TRANSITIONING CONTROVERSY
23:07 VIOLENCE AGAINST TRANS WOMEN
23:44

All Comments (21)
  • Using detransition examples as a reason to discriminate against trans folk is just so stupid. We don’t use divorce as a reason to discriminate against married couples or invalidate the concept of marriage
  • I’m so glad Dylan said this. “If a man wanted to attack a woman in the bathroom they would just walk in. They wouldn’t have to wear a dress and put on long hair.” I wish people would realize this. Y’all in the replies under this comment are missing the point. It wasn’t stated that a CIS MAN has never pretended to be a woman to do harm in a women’s bathroom. It’s that trans women are living their lives JUST LIKE YOU ARE and are trying to use the restroom. Just like you have a problem with the CIS MEN harming women, trans women are not safe in men’s restrooms because of the CIS MEN that do harm. For crying out loud. It’s not that hard to put together.
  • @FourDozenEggs
    I will admit, I used to be aprehensive about the whole trans thing. I'd always have it in my mind that trans women weren't real women and I'd scoff if any one said otherwise. I don't know when it happened but at some point I just stopped caring about such things. If it doesn't hurt any one, who am I to judge? People should just be able to live their lives as they see fit. We should all strive to do that, honestly.
  • @chocob000k
    How can people see this and be like "these people are DANGEROUS, they wanna INDOCTRINATE us" like they just wanna live their life, leave them alone 😭
  • THIS is how our media should be! Actually LISTENING to the groups of people instead of drawing our own conclusions and opinions... The world would be a better place if more people LISTENED to people and believed that while it may not be something you personal experience that doesnt mean others arent experiencing it and it doesnt make it any less valid.
  • @Logan.Winter
    Another thing that needs talked about is how we need to tear down gender stereotypes, I'm a male and was born a male, but I also wanted long hair and to play with Barbies, and when I got older I thought that meant I had to either be trans or not like those things, and that's not true either, you can be a male and like stereotypically female things without actually wanting to be a female.
  • @mothmaniel
    im so upset at how much more hatred and transphobia is in this video's comments section than the trans men one. it really says a lot about the way we treat the two of them differently. trans woman are women the same amount that trans men are men, deal with it!??
  • I started socially transitioning when I was in my sophomore year of high school and then I started Testosterone when I was 16. Everyone’s journey is different but honestly not only because of my own personal experience, but because of people I know’s experiences too I do believe that it is I do believe that hormone blockers for kids should be available and hormones for trans teenagers should be available. If I hadn’t started transitioning when I did I don’t think I’d still be here. I’m now 19 years old and had my top surgery. I’ve been on testosterone for over 3 years now :)
  • If you’re a trans person scrolling through the comment section just to find the hateful ones, stop. Your health is so much more important. You are loved and supported, don’t ever question that
  • @spheal608
    I personally like to think of “dead naming” as using someone’s divorced last name. I mean you wouldn’t go on and ask deeper about someone’s ex marriage partner, that’s really invasive on their personal life. So basically just know that they have a new name and use it accordingly
  • Nikki saying how HRT works and talking about bottom surgery is strangely affirming for me, I'm so glad Anthony did this and they all felt comfortable talking about it :)
  • As a transwoman I just want to add that not all of us know from an early age. It shouldn't matter when you realize nor should you feel you need to explain why you are trans. I didn't know until I was like 15 and I didnt accept myself enough to do anything until I was 24. We all figure it out in our own time
  • My daughter years ago came to me and said she was bi sexual she thought I'd disown her because I'm Christian but I explained to her no matter what I love her because she is my little girl and as long as she is not going out and getting into trouble I said you need to be comfortable within your own skin and I said the same to my 17 year old son who said was pan they are my flesh and blood I gave life to them to be happy go after their dreams I don't understand why people disown their children after finding it difficult to build up the courage to tell you their gay etc would you rather our children be depressed commit suicide because they are not accepted by their loved ones for being who they are beautiful inside and outside my kids are teaching me now and helping me understand the process and the difference between gay bi sexual etc it is me teaching them and them teaching me as well and I love how close we are as a family please guys stop teaching our children that is wrong to be comfortable within your own skin and to tell them to stay away from people who are born different that's only teaching them how to become bullies etc
  • @ThatLaurenThing
    I just know that sorting these comments by “newest” is gonna unlock a cesspool
  • @Haruka19
    As a cisgendered woman, I would hate it if someone used he/him pronouns with me...and i don't even have gender dysphoria, etc so I couldn't imagine! I agree, we NEED to respect others' pronouns. Loved this interview and I love Dylan!! Love these beautiful women, welcome to the club!
  • I love how he didn’t group trans men and women together. I’m cis female, but I do think both trans communities have totally different experiences and there’s no way to get through each individual issue within one interview. Hearing from the women separately is very important and I look forward to a future trans men video.
  • @redbirb
    NOTE: not all trans people realize that they’re trans super early (for example I realized when I was 16 (2 months ago))
  • My dream is to do something like Anthony in the future just talking to different people and learning about different people!